tipsyleprachauns Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 So I haven't posted here in a while. Update is that I broke things off with the new girl I was dating which was very mutual and amicable and we're just going to be great friends. Turns out neither of us is ready. So 7 months on the Ex has at times switched from being hateful. To friendly. To awkwardly flirty. To point blank ignoring. To cold and short. Numerous times in the low contact we've had over the past 7 months. Was feeling really low this week and I seem to have found myself getting into a conversation with her after bumping into one another at church yesterday. Initiated by me via text but to my surprise she replied very friendly. I'd seen her crying after church so just sent her a message saying hope she was okay. She replied pretty sharpish saying she was good and it was just an emotional topic in church. Followed by asking how I am. Then no word till about half an hour ago (from yesterday) when she responded quite short and to the point. I sent another message back and got a reply in about 2 minutes. A little less short and to the point. I just don't really get what's going on here. I know I still want her back. There's nothing in her texts that indicate she has any interest in getting back with me. Last I heard I think she was still dating new non christian lad guy. Guess I'm just so confused as to her constant changing in how she talks to me over the past few months/if she talks to me at all. Bearing in mind last time we had any contact she said she didn't want it and then chose to ignore me again. Shed any light/insight?
steelgator Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Don't bombard her with texts. Text her in a few days and say something thats kind of out of the blue maybe saying you saw something while driving that reminded you of a time you had together and just thought it was pretty cool.
Author tipsyleprachauns Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 Anyone else got any advice? Gone quiet since yesterday, last message she sent me just said she was playing around with her cat who was being really cute watching a film with her. I didn't ask her what she was doing, in some way it's always easier not to know. I just text her something light hearted and jokey back and now all quiet on the ex front.
Sugarkane Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I would'nt have the patience. Her moods sound too bi polar and you never know how she's going to act.
Author tipsyleprachauns Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 I would'nt have the patience. Her moods sound too bi polar and you never know how she's going to act. I guess that's my epic flaw. I've tried talking myself out of being in love with her but I always seem to see the best in her. Pah.
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