redbone198412 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Ok well im new here and would like to say thanks for all the help im going to get here and in this thread.Well me and my ex-gf of 8yrs total have known her for 10 yes we have 2 kids also.We split up at the end of may she told me she was seeing someone and that she had slept with him so i started to date on july 4th and ended up sleeping with someone on the 6th, i also slept with he on the 7th.Well on the 8th my ex calls and wants to work it out so she comes stays the night and we had sex 18 hours after the last time i did it with someone else. She is talking about not giving the chance now as i didnt let her know i slept with the other girl 18 hours before she just found out a hour ago and how i was wrong i told her i did sleep with her tho just didnt give a time.Was i in the wrong or is she over-reacting to this again i did tell her i slept with her just didnt give a time.And told the other lady that i couldnt see her cause i wanted my family back and havent looked back.Now my ex is like shes not sure if she can look at me the same as she did before. What can i do to fix this mess as the only thing that i know i want is my family to be whole again and to move on from all this and be happy thx.
Follower Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Its not something you can fix, theres no magic potion, she is being honest with you. If you were split up techinically you did nothing wrong but then again.... If you want to work at it thats great but realise its your ex's choice if she is willing to work at it or not, so be prepaired for both potential outcomes its truely out of your hands..
salmagundi Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 hold on a second there follower, I mean, I agree - there is no easy magic solution but how is it that she all in knots because he slept with another girl after she dumped him when she slept with some other guy BEFORE (if I follow correctly) she broke up with him. Putting aside the fact that maybe the OP should have taken his time a bit before pointlessly screwing random women post breakup, Isn't she is being a little bit hypocritical and imposing a flagrant double standard on him? Honestly, I'd say f&?k it and move on, myself...
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