veggirl Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Yup, I honestly don't think anyone can really be that oblivious but then again, he is a little bit odd. When he told me that he didn't understand why i felt "bothered" by them (or thought it was inconsiderate)... I asked him how would he feel if he comes to my place for the first time and i had pictures of me and my ex laying around and he said he wouldnt feel anything towards it at all. What kind of person wouldn't feel a little uncomfortable when your significant other has pictures laying around of their ex's around? UNLESS he's just not that interested in me or he's just really different. Yeah the bolded is really telling. So, are the pictures still out? When you are over there why don't you just say "okay seriously I am sick of looking at this, will you just put it away right now so you don't forget later"
ScienceGal Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Yup, I honestly don't think anyone can really be that oblivious but then again, he is a little bit odd. When he told me that he didn't understand why i felt "bothered" by them (or thought it was inconsiderate)... I asked him how would he feel if he comes to my place for the first time and i had pictures of me and my ex laying around and he said he wouldnt feel anything towards it at all. What kind of person wouldn't feel a little uncomfortable when your significant other has pictures laying around of their ex's around? UNLESS he's just not that interested in me or he's just really different. Either he isn't that into you or his heart really took a beating when he split from her. For someone to "not care" means he's burnt out and it's easier to not be bothered by things and just coast along. Maybe it has to do with her or maybe it doesn't, at any rate, he doesn't sound like a good fit for you.
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