eyjoe Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Sooo...long story short, I dated this girl for about 6 months. We never became "official" which is mainly the reason why she ended it with me. We had amazing chemistry and I was falling for her, and I could tell that she had feelings for me as well. Unfortunately, due to my insecurities about committing myself to a relationship, I was never able to truly express my feelings for her. After we stopped seeing each other, I became an emotional wreck, but soon realized that I had to learn from my mistakes. We went NC for a while but still casually caught up. However, about 3 weeks ago, we started talking again and hung out twice. The vibes were great and the chemistry is still there. A few days after we saw each other, I asked her to hang out again, with hopes of having a serious conversation about giving it another try. For some reason, I was given the cold shoulder. I'm not looking to play any mind games, I just want to have a serious talk with her about what went wrong, etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
whoknows11 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Sooo...long story short, I dated this girl for about 6 months. We never became "official" which is mainly the reason why she ended it with me. We had amazing chemistry and I was falling for her, and I could tell that she had feelings for me as well. Unfortunately, due to my insecurities about committing myself to a relationship, I was never able to truly express my feelings for her. After we stopped seeing each other, I became an emotional wreck, but soon realized that I had to learn from my mistakes. We went NC for a while but still casually caught up. However, about 3 weeks ago, we started talking again and hung out twice. The vibes were great and the chemistry is still there. A few days after we saw each other, I asked her to hang out again, with hopes of having a serious conversation about giving it another try. For some reason, I was given the cold shoulder. I'm not looking to play any mind games, I just want to have a serious talk with her about what went wrong, etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated How old are you two? Howd you meet? Need a backstory.
Author eyjoe Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 I'm 21, and so is she. We met in school.
crazylove Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Maybe she's fed up and doesn't want to be in a FWB arrangement again. The only thing women (and some men) usually get from that is disappointment ultimately.
Author eyjoe Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 Makes sense...just gonna lay low for a bit and see where it goes, thanks for your answer!
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