ibrahimovic Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 hi everyone, i saw a girl like 2 years ago that i really like so i started to approach her, it took some time but she started to give me signs like eye contact and smiles. then i decided to talk to her and when i did she felt shy i ran away. the next i saw her she smiles for me also i talked to her then she was extremely shy and run again !! . the problem is that studying course is over and when i saw her last week she never give me eye contact its like she is over me. any help, opinions well be appreciated
BrokenMirror Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I can put myself in your shoes. I went through that with a guy and I've come to the conclusion that if he/she likes you, they will approach you too. They will make excuses to talk to you and they will always try to make eye contact. From what you've told me, I feel like you mistook her friendliness for signals that she liked you. She could just be friendly, trust me on that one, because I make eye contact with people and I smile at them too, but I don't crush on them.
Author ibrahimovic Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 BrokenMirror, thank u for replaying, well i was thinking about that too, but when she started to do the eye contact with me and smiling i changed my mind
Med Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Dont look to much into things, it can make you assume wrongly.
BrokenMirror Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 BrokenMirror, thank u for replaying, well i was thinking about that too, but when she started to do the eye contact with me and smiling i changed my mind Well here's the thing. When I started my last semester, I met this guy and we hung out a lot you know? He would call me and we would hang out. He walked me to my car and would stay there and talk with me till I left. We would text throughout the day, albeit he did have a tendency of not checking his phone, so it wasn't like a 100 texts a day. And we spent time laying down on the grass together and just talking. And I thought that it was going to lead somewhere and I had a huge crush on him. When I told him how I felt, his response was that I was an awesome person but he wasn't really looking for a relationship. And that was that. I still like him a little. But the entire summer, the few times I have texted him, he hasn't responded at all. And I've seen him on facebook being tagged in pics and responding to comments on his wall. My guess is he doesn't want to talk? But I guess we will see what happens when this semester starts.
Author ibrahimovic Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 (edited) thank you for responding again mm at least you can talk to him but in my case i think that i have to move on with all that pain i am feeling because i thought she was one. mm and also i dont understand him, just leaving a girl who cares about you !! i wish that my girl treated me as you treated your guy. ok wish you best of luck and nice to meet you miss Edited July 17, 2012 by ibrahimovic
BrokenMirror Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Nice to meet you as well! As for talking to him, well, I'm not sure if I will. I'll see what happens I suppose. And my ex, well, lets say I'm done. For good this time. I HAVE to keep NC no matter what happens. A friend said that if he cared, he would try to contact me and show that he cares. That is the complete opposite of everything that my ex has done. He doesn't care. Or at least I don't see it. You see, HE has made NO effort whatsoever to get in contact. No. I apologized last night for hurting him and told him I still loved him. He didn't apologize. He said he would do that in person. And the only response I got was an I love you too. And he has not bothered to respond to my last text, which was hours ago. He's watching Netflix instead. I am moving on, and I hope you can do it too. Perhaps we can move on together
Author ibrahimovic Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 seemed that moving on is the only option we have
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