xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 No seriously, we met at the club. I was out by myself a week ago and I was hanging out at a lounge on the Lower East Side and I met this cute guy. He was of course with a group of friends vut rhey decided to come chill out at my promotor's table. Usually when I'm out I'm having the time of my life dancing but it was a Sunday night so I decided to sit at the booth and relax. I chatted him up first because he seemed really shy but we hit it off really well and at the end of the night we exchanged numbers and he drove me home. He even walked me to my door. Then this past Saturday we met up again. I was out for a girlfriend's birthday and ended u up at a dance lounge near the Alphabets and he drove out at 2 in the morning to see me. We ended up having breakfast at a 24 hr diner, we talked for a bit and then he drove me home, again walking me to my door and then giving me a long goodbye kiss. He's going to Miami for a week but said I should text him and that when he got back we should get together again. I'm really surprised he wanted to see me again especially after vacation but I'm getting the feeling he does like. But honestly Ive never dated anyone I've met at the club before and I'm hesitant about starting anything right now espedcially since I just registered flor school and I,ll be starting classe inAugust. Yet I'm also attracted to him but I don't know if he's looking for something serious or a fling. Aside from that, he's Romanian and I heard that Romanian men tend to cheat or have sevedral girlfriends at once. What should I do?
Pyro Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Are you looking for a serious thing or a casual thing? If serious then don't rush into sex. 1
Forever Learning Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Are you looking for a serious thing or a casual thing? If serious then don't rush into sex. Bingo!! Golden advice as usual. Footnote: I met my alcoholic pathological liar ex-husband at a bar/dance club.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 Are you looking for a serious thing or a casual thing? If serious then don't rush into sex. I wabt something serious but I also would like to know that he feels the same way. Thanks for the heads up because. Really don't want a relationship based on sex. I got burned on my last relationship so I've been super cautious about who I go out with.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 It's possible he is thinking the same thing about you. Bang him quick while you can. Next think you know the two of you are having phone sex miles away without ever knowing what it is really like. False emotions start to emerge, when in reality you may never see each other again. Before you know it you have wasted minutes on your phone, emotional exhaustion that never existed from the start separated by the miles between you and a year has past before you know it.Time you could have better spent. Yes, get it on. You better do it now and soon. Otherwise you will left for the rest of your life wondering, what if. Life it too short to be pedantic over silly notions of what other people may think. As attracted as I am to him I font want ro come off as easy. We are not long distance he is just on vacation right now. All I can do is sit back and wait for him to contact me.
KungFuJoe Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Are you looking for a serious thing or a casual thing? If serious then don't rush into sex. Yup. I totally regret having sex with this girl in my car literally hours after drinking and dancing in a club the first time I went out with her. OH...wait a second...no I don't. I'm actually married to her, been together 12 years, have kids, am deeply in love and we **** so often we can't even keep count because neither of us have any hang ups about sex or love. 2
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Yup. I totally regret having sex with this girl in my car literally hours after drinking and dancing in a club the first time I went out with her. OH...wait a second...no I don't. I'm actually married to her, been together 12 years, have kids, am deeply in love and we **** so often we can't even keep count because neither of us have any hang ups about sex or love. There are exceptions to every rule. But sex isn't the issue here. My concern is whether he actually wants to date me. As of right now I can't be involved with anyone unless I know they want to be seripus. I question why he's so nice to me? What does he get put of it? The second time we hung out, I offered to go back to his place but he shot me down. Maybe he's not after sex but he's also had a long day and he looked like he needed sleep. He's on vacation right now and he did ask me to text him whenever. I did text him on mon wishing him a good trip but he hasn't replied. I don't like to bother him on vacation and neither do I have intentions to text him to snoop or for small talk. If he wanted to get wih me he knows how to find me, no?
Pyro Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I wabt something serious but I also would like to know that he feels the same way. Thanks for the heads up because. Really don't want a relationship based on sex. I got burned on my last relationship so I've been super cautious about who I go out with. Don't rush into it and if he respects your decision to wait until you are ready then he will stick around. A guy who wants to just bang you will most likely split. Yup. I totally regret having sex with this girl in my car literally hours after drinking and dancing in a club the first time I went out with her. OH...wait a second...no I don't. I'm actually married to her, been together 12 years, have kids, am deeply in love and we **** so often we can't even keep count because neither of us have any hang ups about sex or love. Good for you that things have worked out. Rushing into sex and having a successful relationship to follow is not very common.
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