Beaker78 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 So i had a weird weird weekend Friday I am on a boat cruise with some friends and it turned out that my ex was on the boat also........ Also had a bit of a drama llama person on the boat who took great pleasure in telling me my ex was on the boat with another guy trying to force some kind of issue I was upset but I didn't approach her..... So me being upset and out having a drink I decided to get really drunk.....low and behold after 5-6 weeks of total NC I decided that I would drunk email her (wasn't a bad breakup btw) so she replied in the morning with an email that basically said can we meet face to face....... I accepted this and she came over to my house...... She stayed for about 4 hours and we began with all the usual stuff of who did what and what my plans going forward would be (didn't really have plans or goals) I have in the past 2 months givin up smoking and change my diet takin up running and lifting and changed my whole outlook. She told me what she would require to happen when we both return to the UK she will leave where we are at the end of August and I will return to the uk in December hopefully sooner.... The conversation went from us being split up to us going slowly to see how things go I opened up completely to her she cried we kissed and then she invited me out that evening to watch a play (a local place that everyone knows us)...I went and we had a great night felt like old times....But I didn't want to push to much to soon and i should have went home with 2 other friends that could have driven me....I didnt because it was a great night and stayed till she was leaving. I ended up going back to her place and staying over (no sex as was never my intention) then we had an awesome morning went for a walk to the park and just chilled out with each other then she drove me home..... I am though weirded out by the nature of this shift and worried I will mess my chance up and about a million other things flying through my head at once about how it could all go wrong......or that she will say the inevitable line of I don't feel the way you do It was a kinda mutual breakup though I instigated it and when she had no other option but to agree with some of her own feelings on the matter... I will keep updating now and again to let u guys know how it's going
WillFindMyWay79 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Sounds exciting! I think we would all like to have another chance with our Ex's as you are! Keep us in the know!
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