Crila16 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 You need to read that book "What Men Want". That will help you out immensly. Just remember one thing. A guy will very rarely say no to sex...but if you want to be wife material, he wants to know that you are NOT easy to get. If you are easy to get, he's going to always wonder if it was easy for other guys too. You automatically get thrown into back burner, good for now firl territory. I don't care what anyone tells you...you will be. There are exceptions to the rule, but you are NOT the exception. A guy will sleep with you and then automatically pull away if he's not emotionally attached to you yet. Think about it. Control yourself until at least the 10th date (NO NOT THE 5TH). Once you have sex, you can't go back...so you best wait. After that, your chances of him sticking around have greatened and you can from that point on have sex anytime you want. Just wait the couple of weeks. I promise it will be worth it. Don't be a fool.
maybealone Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I laugh at the bold statement because you can say that but when a man curious about a woman's past ask about it a woman won't reveal it. The man wants to have all the information he needs to make an informed decision about the person. Meaning that if a woman has X number of sexual partners, he won't see her as LTR material? Even if he also believes she should sleep with every man she has three dates with?
RedRobin Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I laugh at the bold statement because you can say that but when a man curious about a woman's past ask about it a woman won't reveal it. The man wants to have all the information he needs to make an informed decision about the person. If that person potentially has some things that are incompatible with his beliefs then he should be told. Women like you are no different than the men you complain about that push for sex early on. My advice to both men and women is the same. If you believe a woman isn't telling you the truth about something, and you don't trust her, then you would be wise to wait until you have enough information. This is why I said I was perplexed that some men think they know enough about a woman to sleep with her in one or two dates. Don't they have their own filters and criteria? Don't you think it is time the gents start exercising a little caution/restraint on their own? Rather than just jump into sex and cross their fingers? Seems reasonable to me.
RedRobin Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Meaning that if a woman has X number of sexual partners, he won't see her as LTR material? Even if he also believes she should sleep with every man she has three dates with? Even if he has had sex with X number of partners himself? Because we all know that when the 'player' finally decides to settle down, he's entitled to a 'nice' girl.
RedRobin Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 A guy will sleep with you and then automatically pull away if he's not emotionally attached to you yet. Newsflash. So do women... pull away from men if she has sex with him and isn't emotionally attached. Both men and women get hurt this way. It benefits both men and women who are looking for a relationship to wait until there is adequate trust and caring. It is not reasonable to expect the woman to be the sexual arbiter and the gatekeeper. Smart, mature men get this. 1
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