Lonelystar Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 I know I have posted about this issue, however I am at lost. My ex and I share all the same friends and it really sucks. I have never made them pick between him or me and neither has he. Today all of us went somewhere and he ignored me , and I did vise versa. I don't know if I should just not go places he goes to or just ignore him when I do go places he does? Or should I take the higher ground and talk to him first? Any advice would be helpful. thanks.
magda Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 Yeah, forget "higher ground" try "be normal". Talk to him. I'm sure your friends hate it, too. If it was a serious long-term relationship, I don't think you'd want to hang out together. But since you are hanging out I'm assuming it was neither. So if it was short term and not so serious.. then seriously why care?
Author Lonelystar Posted July 8, 2004 Author Posted July 8, 2004 Well it was 7months. I dont know if that is considerd long term or not , but we did connect in some many different levels. To this day I know things about him nobody else does and he knows stuff about me too. I just feel he betrayed because he told his friends some stuff about me he promised he wouldn't. I can let go of all of that, but I don't know If I should just say hi. I don't mind that he is there... I am fine with ignoring him and I think he is fine with ignoring me too. I just wonder how long this ignoring will go on. I just don't get how one day you can just stop talking to someone that you shared so much with. I wonder if he even cares that he lost me as a friend...probably not.
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