headsashed Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Cant believe how fast time has gone,thats what u get for being busy i suppose lol. I have to say im doing alot better,each day is getting easier for me now,thank god. I do still think about the ex but its not that intense anymore,and its not as often. I sleep and eat fine,basically my life seems to be going ok. I think in 9 weeks ive had about 3 bad days,kind of shows how far ive come. Theres still a long way to go i know but im stronger now so i know ill be just fine. The ex has broke NC a fair few times but i never responded,ive had a 3am call,a txt asking if i will fix her car lol,that was damn cheeky of her. She has txt and called my phone a fair few times but i never answered or responded. I saw her twice last week in my local,still cant believe she was in there,i didnt think she would ever show her face in that place again. My heart did race a little when i saw her but i didnt feel hurt,both times after she saw me in the local she has txt me when she got home. Im actually the stronger person now,and im proud of myself. 1 of her txts which did kind of hit me said she had met her ex bf,the guy she was with before me,whom cheated on her and she had fell for someone and he didnt want to know,yet she didnt do anything with him. Ive no idea why she chose to txt me that info. My last post on here was about an email she sent me saying sorry for a few things,including where she intended to meet 1 of my friends to get me out of her system but knew it was wrong,well,a friend of mine came to my house this morning and said that my ex was txting that other friend last night and asked of i had heard anything from her,id not heard anything from her. It sounds like shes bouncing all over or shes just a messed up girl. The thing that got me a little was her meeting her ex,it kind of made me feel like i was a rebound,just a long 1 lol,unless shes rebounding herself,who knows. Anyway,thats about all thats happened and im feeling stronger now,it goes to show that time and NC does heal wounds. I hope soon enough she will be fully out of my life and then i can be ready to start dating again and find a woman that deserves me.
Brokendude Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Thats great to hear man, im truly hoping i can get to ur stage, its only the first week and im devastated over losing my gf of 2 years, i miss her every single moment and i feel very weak but im trying my best to move on but im only human, u inspire me to stay strong, thank you!!!!
Author headsashed Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 Thats great to hear man, im truly hoping i can get to ur stage, its only the first week and im devastated over losing my gf of 2 years, i miss her every single moment and i feel very weak but im trying my best to move on but im only human, u inspire me to stay strong, thank you!!!! Mine was a 2.5 year relationship,we were very close etc so i know how you feel pal. Its only normal to miss her every second of everyday but it does get easier,i still think of my ex alot but its not as intense. No contact is the best way to heal too,out of sight out of mind is the saying,not so much out of mind but not seeing or speaking to them eases the thoughts over time. Just stay busy and you will be fine,i promise.
Brokendude Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Thank you bro! Much appreciated although im weak right now im very ery good with nc hence, im a mess...i believe in nc and respect myself too much to ever chase or beg someone who left me, u inspire me dude and im glad i stumble upon u on here
Tree_Salmon Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 This is all great to hear. I was in a 5 year but it seems to be wearing off much quicker than I thought. She's broken NC a ton of times and sometimes ill say something and she tries to latch on and get me to talk but its all a game to her. So I've gone NC indefinitely for now simply because I feel like not talking to her. The most important thing to learn here is that you need to do whatever YOU want to. Nobody should control you emotionally.
Author headsashed Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 Im in NC to heal,if i replied i know she would emotionally own me and i cant let that happen,especially with how far ive come. Ive not heard from her since thursday night,think shes too busy partying haha,its been her birthday and i know shes back at work tomorrow,see,she seems to only contact me when shes bored or something,with abit of luck she wont contact me again and i can get even stronger
Author headsashed Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 Thank you bro! Much appreciated although im weak right now im very ery good with nc hence, im a mess...i believe in nc and respect myself too much to ever chase or beg someone who left me, u inspire me dude and im glad i stumble upon u on here We will all help you pal,it might be hard now but were all here for you and believe me when i say it does get easier with time.
RogerWallace111 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Yeah, it does get easier. Glad to hear youre doing well man. I'm about 6.5 weeks nc, still think about her a fair amount and get a bit depressed, but the pain doesn't have the edge it first did. It's just a dull sadness when it comes now, which is not too frequently.
Author headsashed Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 That means your starting to heal,i still think about my ex but its not as much and not as intense,just stick to nc and its gonna get easier. I love days like today,ive been working all day,proper grafting,my body is aching so im sat here with a few cans of beer just chatting to friends and browsing here,i havent got the energy to even think about her lol,and tomorrow will be the same,lots of hard graft.
whywhy Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I've had the heartbreak three times with the same and each time it doesn't get any easier. I'm in so much pain right now. I'm a grown ass man and I'm balling my eyes out just writing this
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