blue_jay_bird Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Okay, i guess iv posted my story more then once, i feel like he was heartless and cold. I would like to know if everyones break up's where this bad, or are there more graceful break ups. I just dont understand how he could break up with me this way and leave me in so much pain. The only explanation i can make in my head is, he doesn't love me. If he did he would hate to see me in this pain. Dumper's why are they so cold? Okay this is what happened, my boyfriend of seven year drove up to my house, i got in the car and he told me he doesn't want to marry me, does not see a future with me, and still "love's me" (pfff) it felt like it took him 15 mins. He didn't even lock at me in the face. I asked him why and he told me " It's just who i am" I screamed **** you and left. I thought everything was great before he dumped me. I guess i was wrong.
Sameold Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Effectively the same thing just happened to me after 3.5 years with the gf. It's like she's a different person, maybe she is though in which case why would I want to go out with a horrible bitch like that? 1
BrokenAnna Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 I dumped my ex a few months ago and even though I was a total b##ch about it, I still loved him. I had this mentality that the more he suffers the more he loved me which in return would excite me but unfortunately my mind games cost me dearly as he stopped trying to contact me a few months after the breakup.
downandlost Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Yea I hate that, Had it with my ex today when she dumped me. She was 1 person when we were together, then as soon as she decides to end it she throws and reason really... To quote her today was just some of the typical ways "I dont think I can be in a relationship at the moment" and "You should be with someone closer to you that makes you happy". Makes it even worse that it was via txt, completely the opposite of what she was like in the relationship
2muchlove Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Yea I hate that, Had it with my ex today when she dumped me. She was 1 person when we were together, then as soon as she decides to end it she throws and reason really... To quote her today was just some of the typical ways "I dont think I can be in a relationship at the moment" and "You should be with someone closer to you that makes you happy". Makes it even worse that it was via txt, completely the opposite of what she was like in the relationship Bloody coward.
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