Girls, is she playing hard to get

[bobsmith76]

Please, no input from guys. Girls, how likely is it that she's playing hard to get? Honestly, I really doubt it. But on the other hand we are very well matched. We're both don't believe in premarital sex, we're both extremely well-educated, she has a phd, I speak 11 languages and have self-published a book and we're both deep believers in God. She's a Christian whereas I'm just a theist. I'm guessing she doesn't like the fact that I'm not a Christian and she probably also does not like the fact that I have such a meager job: night auditor at a hotel. I've emailed her through OKC I think about 3 times in the last year.

 

 

On July 27, 2011 she wrote:

Hi,

 

I appreciate your emails. I am incredibly busy at this point in my life (preparing for my Ph.D. exams. I'm afraid that just now I can't really go on a date.

 

Good luck.

 

And today she wrote:

I am truly flattered by your persistence, but I am just not interested. Good luck here and please don't contact me again.

[YellowShark]

I am not a girl but when a woman says "don't contact me again." she means it. This is a dead end dude.

[Snakechammah]

She's not playing hard to get. She's not interested. She clearly said it. It doesn't matter why. Time to move on. Good luck.

[Andy_K]

Has to be a troll, surely?

[ThingsAreComplicated]

Has to be a troll, surely?

 

uhm...no doubt

[truth_seeker]

If this is real, I like this girl. She told him flat out in a kind but direct way that she has no interest. That's the way it should be with dating if you are not interested in someone.

[It's Just Me]

You may think that you are very well-matched, but clearly she does not. Time to move on, for sure. And be thankful that she was honest, instead of playing games.

[SmileFace]

I don't think she is playing.

[confused_woman1]

She's definitely not playing hard to get. It's hard for a woman to tell a guy flat out that she's not interested and not to contact her again. So when she does, she's 1000% serious.

[orcunderabridge]

I think she's just testing you to see if you really like her.

 

I'd say try it again, maybe try to get her on the phone, that will surely impress her...

[Eternal Sunshine]

You look like a student of mine that was being creepy last semester. Are you?

[skyneel]

Not playing hard to get frnd. Just try to impress him/her. Impress is the last word of getting some one. But don't do it for cheating. Do for the best one for you.