lovers Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 So there is this girl who I have known for over a year now, we are kinda close and talked a bit. I am sexually frustrated with her because she would invite me over to stay the night and we would kiss and cuddle multiple times, but I do literally ALL of the work. I'm the one that kisses her and cuddles with her, but I would like for her to initiate or reciprocate. Today I got really annoyed cause she told me to come over and watch a movie with her, but as we were making out, cuddling, and at a certain point we were naked and I thot we were gonna have sex (me doing all the work to get to that point of course) she said no and I just stopped and it killed the mood. I am sort of attracted to her, but I don't think she is someone I would want to have as my girlfriend cause we are different people. So when she denied me, I tried to sleep and cuddle with her for another hour while not showing that I am annoyed. I couldn't sleep so I told her I am gonna head home. I stopped contacting for awhile before hand because I got annoyed with her in the past, until she told me today to come over. I am thinking about not contacting her at all anymore and just move on. Am I wrong for doing this? What do you think I should do? (It kinda depresses me a bit because I haven't had sex with someone since me and my ex girlfriend broke up and it has been awhile).
Sameold Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Overall it sounds like you're just looking for sex. Clearly this isn't a one night stand type thing (which actually would suit you more). I think you have both over-complicated this and probably want different things. My view, move on and find a girl who wants the same as you. This will also stop you using this girl for sex.
Author lovers Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 (edited) i probably am. but telling me to come over when i havent talked to her in awhile to basically sleep over with a girl, its hard for a guy not to get horny. her self control is amazibg tho, i respect that. its frustrating as a guy tho. i mean im not the one talking to her or telling her to come over. im moving on, not gonna waste my time with her. Edited July 15, 2012 by lovers
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