Rocky111 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 (edited) Hey. My situation is I met this girl whilst out with friends. We got to talking and after a while we where snuggled up together , held hands and we then Kissed. The chemistry felt good and I'm confident she likes me and I really like her. Once everyone had gone there separate ways we left and went back to her place. Now the thing is I just returned from active duty with the military 2 days ago and this was my first time out in almost 8 months and even now I'm still struggling to adjust back to normal life. Anyways, I was feeling a little bit out of place and didn't want to go to fast, so we didn't end up doing anything to serious. The following day I got her number and asked if I could see here again. She said 'Yes' so I said I would call her. Now I'm shy around girls at the best of time so that plus the fact I just got home and am still finding my feet has got me worried and nervous about where to go from here. When should I call? Should I text/facebook her? Where should I take her? Any advice would be much appreciated. I just need to figure out how to best go about this. Thank you so much in advance:) (By the way I'm 22 and she is 20) Edited July 15, 2012 by Rocky111
skyisfalling Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Aww Rocky you're so cute! I remember being your age and getting all nervous after giving out my number... good times. Obviously, she is interested or she wouldn't have given you her number. Just call her up and ask her what she's up to and go from there. Dont think too much about it. Just talk to her like you'd talk to a friend and casually ask what she's going to do on the weekend. Definitely plan something if you guys do meet. I remember going out once and asking, "So what are we going to do.." "i dont know what do you want to do..." , those are the worst. I just wanna scream and punch him in the face. LOL. good luck have fun!! Hey. My situation is I met this girl whilst out with friends. We got to talking and after a while we where snuggled up together , held hands and we then Kissed. The chemistry felt good and I'm confident she likes me and I really like her. Once everyone had gone there separate ways we left and went back to her place. Now the thing is I just returned from active duty with the military 2 days ago and this was my first time out in almost 8 months and even now I'm still struggling to adjust back to normal life. Anyways, I was feeling a little bit out of place and didn't want to go to fast, so we didn't end up doing anything to serious. The following day I got her number and asked if I could see here again. She said 'Yes' so I said I would call her. Now I'm shy around girls at the best of time so that plus the fact I just got home and am still finding my feet has got me worried and nervous about where to go from here. When should I call? Should I text/facebook her? Where should I take her? Any advice would be much appreciated. I just need to figure out how to best go about this. Thank you so much in advance:) (By the way I'm 22 and she is 20) 1
spiderowl Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Best to phone her as it's more personal than texting. Suggest a few different places to go - maybe somewhere to get a light snack, some activity-based thing, or something cultural like a gallery, and the let her respond and see which appeals to her. If you two do get together again, I think it would be worth telling her you are just adjusting to being back home again. She might not realise you are feeling like that and it would help her to know you better and build a relationship with her, if you want a relationship that is. 1
skyisfalling Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I second that. Definitely phone her. There's nothing worse than a man who is too lazy to call. Texting is being lazy. Take the time out to dial her number and hear her voice.
Author Rocky111 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 Do you recommend I add her on facebook/text her to build some kind of rapport before calling her and asking her out?
skyisfalling Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 call her and then add her on facebook. cmon rocky, grow a pair and put yourself on the line. just call her.......... time is ticking.
YellowShark Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Do you recommend I add her on facebook/text her to build some kind of rapport before calling her and asking her out? No Rocky. Don't use Stupidbook to romance a woman. God I wish that website had never been invented. You call her dude. You got her number she said yes. So phone her - LIKE A MAN - and ask her out. Something simple for the first date, be a gentleman. Reconnect with her on a few dates. And don't even put Stupidbook on your radar if you really like this girl. It shouldn't even matter. Good luck.
skyisfalling Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 LOL @ stupidbook. i couldn't agree more. No Rocky. Don't use Stupidbook to romance a woman. God I wish that website had never been invented. You call her dude. You got her number she said yes. So phone her - LIKE A MAN - and ask her out. Something simple for the first date, be a gentleman. Reconnect with her on a few dates. And don't even put Stupidbook on your radar if you really like this girl. It shouldn't even matter. Good luck.
Author Rocky111 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 (edited) Cheers everyone. Much appreciated. Any ideas on where to take her? Edited July 16, 2012 by Rocky111
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