Kortez101 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Hello there! well firstly I'm a 18 year old guy Who is fairly self conscious and kinda shy. Hence, from being shy and self conscious I CANNOT even start a decent convo with the girls. Picture this sceneario, once in a house party, there was this extremely beautiful girl that stood out from the crowd, as time passed on I couldn't resist but just look at her from the corner of my eye, at a particular point she caught me looking and she smiled, not gonna lie that moment was magical. Through out that night we had eye contact, and she gave me this look it was like a "come her and talk to me!" facial expression. This is where my problem comes in and kicks me right in the balls, honestly if some one was filming the way i was reacting it some what resembled a scene in the "40 year old virgin". I was constantly getting of my seat thinking to myself "I can do this" 1 sec later I'm alread back :/ friends thought of it as a comedy moment, well to me it wasnt:(. At the end of all this she came to me kissed on the cheek and left. Went back home thinking to myself I'm such a failure with girls.the thing is I can talk to girls and stuff but literally the introduction point is where I can't start also my head goes blank and I get a butterfly sensation. I really try to overcome this feeling that's stopping me, but it doesn't work. The funny thing is my friends who are girls I could speak perfectly and several of them like liked me, but when it comes to a stranger it's different. So my question is how do I overcome this hand sweating ,heart beating ,head baffling sensation? How do I start a convo with a girl (intro point)? I would really appreciate clear and subjective answers, also I would like to know from a girl/women perspective, however i wouldnt mind some male answers mingling in. Looking forward to some good answers! Thank you
without Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Hey Ask your friends who was that girl and get her number and talk to her BTW you should ask other guys what they do not girls. Personally I was shy too, But I started by talking to new people when I was with my friends, that way I had more confidence. Then little by little I approached people and talked to them. I just didn't over think it and did it. And yes at first you will be nervous but after a couple of minutes it'll get better. Plus if you talk to a girl and be alittle nervous it's cute to some girls.
O'farrell Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 You say whats up with a smile on your face and after her response ask who she is and stuff. Then offer her a drink. Thats that.
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