Ellekay Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 There's this guy I've been talking to for about a month or two, and he seems very interested, but every time we're in front of each other he transforms into ice, acting like he doesn't care. Like last night my friends told me that he threw a few glances at me every time I wasn't looking, his body language was pretty suggestive like : body turned towards me, legs wide open, feet pointed towards me, etc... He was with his friends and when I walked passed him, someone called my name, my friends heard it, I heard it, and when I turned around he was looking at me, and I know it was me he was calling and not another girl because my name is pretty rare, and when I sent him a text saying "did you call my name 2mn ago ?" and he was like "nope", I mean I'm not stupid you moron, I HEARD YOU ! Lol, and at one time he left our "group" of friends with his friends and I did'nt follow him because he was acting like he didn't care, and I don't really know any of his friends, and so then he sends me a text saying "you're not even gonna come with us ?", I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE WANTS, he seems really interested but I don't know, so please help, what do you think ? Do you think he's just shy/intimidated ? Or just not that into me ? Because I really wanna figure out, I really like this guy. Thanks
MrCastle Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Sounds like you're both playing a game of chicken to see who blinks first. He probably is interested but doesn't want to show too much too soon. He's waiting for signs of interest from you to make his move, but you're over there doing the same thing. How often do you initiate contact with him? Is he always the one to text first? Has he asked you out one on one or vice versa? Do you flirt with him, or compliment him at all or vice versa?
Author Ellekay Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 The thing is, it's that I'm the one who added him on Facebook, and when he asked me who I was and if we ever met eachother before, I said something like "No we don't know eachother but you're at my high-school, and I think you're cute", so I mean that's a pretty big sign of interest from my part ! Then when it comes to texting it's mostly me, but like if I don't text him for a while, he'll text me, but yeah the texts are mostly initiated by me... And evrytime I've asked him out he said he was too busy, exept for last night, but, nothing was really planned, we just saw eachother at the party and that's it. He does flirt a lot with me though, but I try to stop him a bit because sometimes he gets a little too flirty if you know what I mean lol. And we don't really compliment eachother, but some stuff he says to me are pretty clear that he's attracted to me...
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