Tonii Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 OK i will try to explain this as briefly as I can: Im the owners son first of all. Theres a super hot and cool receptionist that I became friends with her first day like 18 months ago. Got her number but was always doing something else and never really hung out. About 6 months ago started talking a lot more and i became interested. She threw out a lot of mixed messages for awhile. Everytime id leave town on business shed be blowing up my phone though. she came by a few times and we just chilled. Sent her flowers for her b-day the unexepected surprise move. 2 weeks later we hooked up. Now I will admit not my best preformance kind of brief but very hot had bite marks for weeks. Nothings been weird since then quite the opposite its been about 7 weeks. She texts me everyday i rarely ever text her first. Lately shes seemed a lot more interested. she will go through periods where i feel shes not interested though. So in closing im really into this chic now and i dont want to loose my window of oppurtunity. I want it to be more than a one night stand.
ascendotum Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 So where are the bolders blocking your path? She's the one sending the daily txts over the past weeks. Just ask her out on a date, its a safe bet she'll be eager to say yes.
Oncehadluv Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 your the OWNERS son, if shes smart and an oppertunist id tread lightly because you dont know her true intentions. 1
Oncehadluv Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 how is her behavior outside of the work place?? party girl? big drinker?
fishtaco Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 She's giving you the green light. But I warn you of the same. You are the owner's son. She's likely to have other motives. But I could be wrong, maybe she is genuinely interested. Anyway, if you play your role as a man, you're supposed to go for it, even if you received much less "signal" from her. Since you've had sex already, I assume she's not building up a sexual harassment case against you, otherwise she would have dropped the hammer already. But I still suggest you keep everything professional at the work place. Proceed with caution.
Oncehadluv Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 theres so much at risk here putting the family buisness in jeopardy
Author Tonii Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 I should add her grandma is the office manager and damn near family. I have rose colored glasses on for sure but i'm pretty positive shes a stand up person. Its an odd situation for sure but you cant control how you feel about somebody. What should i do i'm all ears.
Oncehadluv Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I should add her grandma is the office manager and damn near family. I have rose colored glasses on for sure but i'm pretty positive shes a stand up person. Its an odd situation for sure but you cant control how you feel about somebody. What should i do i'm all ears. how old are you if you dont mind me asking? and her?
mortensorchid Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 You seem to kind of not want to be with her after this. Are you embarrassed or ashamed that you did what you did? She is obviously interested, but you don't seem too excited about this once you got the prize. Is that what's happening?
Author Tonii Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 Ok i'm 24 shes 23. I'm defiantly not ashamed i couldnt be more proud lol. I thought it was lust at first but after we slept together that was defiantly not enough. I like her a lot but she has the potential to be a heartbreaker. Maybe you sense apprehension and there is some. Only because of the work thing thats new for me.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 ... What should i do i'm all ears. Marry her and live happily ever after. What's the problem?
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