Dblock10 Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 (edited) just a thought. basically people rebound when they have been dumped. so this means, the person who dumped the other, if they have met someone else how can that be classed as a rebound? its not. they chose to do so and so for them its a new beginning as apposed to them moping about seeking validation from sex with someone else or company of someone else. otherwise my ex has been in a rebound for 4 years lol basically i think dumpee's are the ones who end up in rebounds Edited July 13, 2012 by Dblock10
hinatticus Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Generally I agree, but to me a rebound is a relationship that happens when the person is still not over the last relationship. In my situation my ex(dumper) has emotional baggage from me so if she enters a relationship id still consider it a rebound. On the flip side, if I'm totally over my ex(which I'm not), I wouldn't call my next relationship a rebound. Generally, if you're still hurting or thinking about the last relationship, the next is a rebound. Another generally... Usually it's the dumpee who is still hurting tho.
GLDheart Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Sadly, most dumper's start the process of thinking that that want to do the dumping when they feel a connection with someone new. Sometimes this even means a little cheating. Well, that simply means that they have nothing to get over, hence no rebound needed.
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