Zammo25 Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 There come's a time when you have to stop beating yourself up. Stop analyising every single conversation you had, every moment you spent, all you did together and stop trying to wonder , what if I said this ?, what if I did that ? It's GONE. You made mistakes maybe but if you put your heart out to try and correct those mistakes and they did not want to be with you that is all you can do. All you can do is thank them for the time together and wish them well in their new life and move on. That is what I have done this week and it has been tough but today I actually think I hope she is happy and the new guy can bring her happiness as she deserves it and I loved her. It has been a very tough week but I am reaching acceptance and will not beat myself up anymore over the split as I am done with that. Tired, exhausted and anyway a split is NEVER 100% the fault of one party. Time to go easy on yourself and look forward and not back. Good luck in your challenges. Zammo25 x
Oncehadluv Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 your the one that keeps fiddling around with contacting your ex, so what is it your projecting now?
Author Zammo25 Posted July 14, 2012 Author Posted July 14, 2012 your the one that keeps fiddling around with contacting your ex, so what is it your projecting now? We have had LC, both ways for a while and this week I have been getting closure. I am not sure of the reason for the nasty comment but I am finding LS to be full of people who, rather than try and help or empathise are eager to stick the boot in and ridicule you and LS is not helping my recovery. Therefore I will not be posting anymore.
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