KansasChica Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I'm curious to see what others have been through. I never truly realized how immature he was until after the breakup. I guess I was too immersed to see. My ex and I have communicated some since our breakup months ago, but he's never once asked how I was, he doesn't take any responsibility for the end of our relationship (he was the dumper), he blames me for everything wrong in his life (lack of friends, lack of sleep, overworking, etc.), and several times he sees me, walks past me, looks at me, and ignores me (until I call him out). Anyone dealt with any other signs? (sorry, this helps in some way)
january2011 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I didn't experience the examples of immaturity that you described in your OP. I'm guessing that it's might be a generational or cultural thing. Though I did find that with time and space, looking back at the relationship and our parts in the break up, things appeared much clearer. Making it much easier to process and learn the required lessons. As to your situation, I don't think you need to call him out or have any contact with him at all, if you can help it. Better to focus on your own life and let him get on with his. No matter how deluded you think he is.
darkmoon Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 he might be like this at fifty - but he won't look as cute - it's in him to blame the woman in an ego-led bid to seem perfect and/or sulk, you dodged a bullet, imho
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