jaydubnj Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Me and my partner split up 3 weeks ago. We still love eachother and are of course we are still attracted to eachother. We are trying to work things out and get back together. However, here is what I am concerned about right now. We both want to have sex but we do not want it to interefere with any progress that we may have made since the breakup. Do you think that meeting up just to have physical relations is a good idea or a bad idea and do you think that it would have any change with the progress we are making?
Samilia Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Me and my partner split up 3 weeks ago. We still love eachother and are of course we are still attracted to eachother. We are trying to work things out and get back together. However, here is what I am concerned about right now. We both want to have sex but we do not want it to interefere with any progress that we may have made since the breakup. Do you think that meeting up just to have physical relations is a good idea or a bad idea and do you think that it would have any change with the progress we are making? Bad bad bad. I repeat, bad. It's a f*ck buddy relationship, do not step into that. When, if, you do decide to get back together, then sex will be part of the deal.
SeventhFloor Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 No no no no no! Bad! I'm sorry but it will revert you back to 1 month BEFORE the breakup, at the very LEAST. What is it going to change? Nothing... I'm sorry... don't do it. You are thinking with the wrong body parts. Just let it go... it's for the best. I know from experience. If you don't believe me...then do it. And please, come back and tell us how you feel. It won't be any good.
barriob Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Completely dont do it. I did and he now has a new gf and I was dropped fast. Itll keep you hoping.
salmagundi Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 yeah, that's a terrible idea, he just wants the milk without having to buy the cow. If you do this you only be helping him through your break-up but once he finds someone else it'll be over. trust me, i've been there...
rayne05us Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Horrible idea! Horrible! that will turn in to a pattern of stringing each other along and if you both want to work this out, then take it seriously and not have sex with each other. That's like skipping 10 steps ahead in your science book and then wondering why you failed the test, ya know?
Svet74 Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I did that with my ex for a couple months after the breakup. Bad idea.. thats all he would come over for.. never call.. only when he wanted to get laid. I felt so used. and miserable. and we didnt get back together. Been 8 months since we had sex and we talk like normal. sometimes even chases me
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