MaxNoob Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 Inexperience is one of the most baffling deal breakers to me. Less experience means lower chances of STDs, not so jaded and complaining about exes. No exes orbiting and waiting for any chance to win her back. Passionate and willing to learn. My first girlfriend had tons of experience and it didn`t matter to her at all that I was a virgin. When 2 people like each other and are compatible, then lack of experience is trivial and temporary. 1
todreaminblue Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 If I'm up front about it she bolts. If she asks and I'm honest she bolts. There's a single choice remaining and that is lying about it. I wouldn't suggest lying about it because if you are about to have that first time with the person you lied too its going to be new to you and possibility of it being over very quickly is pretty high........ Be up front when and if you feel the relationship is progressing, its an intimate subject....its not like you would ask a date so how many times have you had sex..if they do ask that question it's weird anyway.....and if they bolt.....they have issues ....you aren't the one with issues...so your need for disclosure should be on a need to know basis...always be honest though.....I think its sweet and an admirable trait.....the woman who is your first will be someone who is important to you not a drunken fumble with a bucket by the bed......and that is sweet.....good luck and best wishes.....be proud.....deb
fishtaco Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 She was mad that I didn't tell her sooner. Does she want me to broadcast it? I don't even tell friends. extremely rare a lady will overlook it. wonderful, how wonderful. No matter whatever it is that you do, some chick is going to be mad at you. Do whatever works for you. If a chick likes you, you can get away with A LOT. So if your little pinky toe goes out of line and she screams bloody murder, that's not a chick you should pay attention to.
ascendotum Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 ... I will tell you that there a lot of women from my experience who appreciate a brutally honest guy. It takes a lot of balls to tell a woman something like that, some women might be turned off some might not.... They will appreciate it at the time, because its helped them make up their mind to reject him early without having to waste more time for a guy she was 'on the fence' with. She wont recommend & help to set him up her friends for his forthright honesty in appreciation. Some women wont be turned off, but most will. Play the odds donny boy, avoid, be vague, or lie. If it works = not a virgin anymore even if she subsequently walks, If it backfires = no change in status.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 There's a single choice remaining and that is lying about it. You seem woefully confused. As anyone would agree another so-called choice you have would be to pay a prostitute (who wouldn't care whether you told her in advance - but you should, in such a situation). If you're not a law-breaker, then go to Nevada or Canada (or the like, somewhere near to your far-away locale) and pay for that first experience, in order to lose your virginity. My point isn't as much how you should lose your virginity as it is there is clearly at least one more choice available to you.
Author DonDuck Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 You seem woefully confused. As anyone would agree another so-called choice you have would be to pay a prostitute (who wouldn't care whether you told her in advance - but you should, in such a situation). If you're not a law-breaker, then go to Nevada or Canada (or the like, somewhere near to your far-away locale) and pay for that first experience, in order to lose your virginity. My point isn't as much how you should lose your virginity as it is there is clearly at least one more choice available to you. You must be kidding. How am I going to splain that one to her?
irin Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 very religious? I'm quite confused. no im just really put off at the idea of it. i dont know if i classify as an asexual, or just simply have no interest in the act. i used get really aroused, but now its to me.
Yamaha Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Why are you ashamed of your state? Being a virgin in your mid 30's means you're in the drivers seat in when it comes to picking a mate ( without being a hypocrite).
Author DonDuck Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 Why are you ashamed of your state? Being a virgin in your mid 30's means you're in the drivers seat in when it comes to picking a mate ( without being a hypocrite). I'm a man. Not a woman. It doesn't put you in the back of the bus as a man. It puts you under the bus.
carhill Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 If I'm up front about it she bolts. If she asks and I'm honest she bolts. There's a single choice remaining and that is lying about it. Another response is 'why do you ask that?' I learned that from Ann Landers as a child BTDT, never mentioned my virginity to anyone, including the single mother of two with whom I shared it at 35. There's always a choice. 1
SJC2008 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Many women are turned off by it because they like sex just like men (but aren't allowed to say it) and they think you won't get them off or it will be awkward. The second reason is they think once you get the exp you'll gig them. Eat her out untill she has a siezure then screw her she won't know!
Author DonDuck Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 Many women are turned off by it because they like sex just like men (but aren't allowed to say it) and they think you won't get them off or it will be awkward. The second reason is they think once you get the exp you'll gig them. Eat her out untill she has a siezure then screw her she won't know! They just will know it. Had a minute long makeout session. Close enough?
SJC2008 Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 They just will know it. Had a minute long makeout session. Close enough? She knew from making out??
Author DonDuck Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 She knew from making out?? She knew before from my mannerisms.
Author DonDuck Posted July 15, 2012 Author Posted July 15, 2012 Close this thread. I've decide to shut down and not do anything until I'm 45 in 2023. Obviously, ladies want something other than me.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Lets up the bidding - shut it down until you're 55.
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