miss_jaclynrae Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I am all about open and honest relationships, but I am so tired of meeting great guys and due to there ability to feel comfortable around me, feel the need to inform me about their past relationships. I get it, it is something that should be addressed at the right time, but it seems lately so many great men I have dated talk about the ex WAY TOO MUCH. You don't see me sharing my divorce details with every guy I date. I guess my real question is: Is is a bad thing that they disclose so much about there past relationships to me? Or should I appreciate the fact that they feel comfortable enough to talk about it? I should add that in no way do the dates get a friend vibe, hand holding, kissing, and sometimes sexual relations ensure... but obviously I feel put off hearing so much about the "ex". I also though don't discourage the talk and show genuine interest because a part of me does empathize with them.
Philosoraptor Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 If they are still jabbering about the ex they probably aren't over it yet. I doubt they aren't doing this to everyone they see though. 2
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 If they are still jabbering about the ex they probably aren't over it yet. I doubt they aren't doing this to everyone they see though. Totally what I figure, but then again I have heard from some men that it isn't always a bad thing unless he is making her out to be this amazing person and talking extremely high of her. Either way, is it completely useless for the "relationship" to continue? [relationship in quotes due to casual dating circumstances]
Philosoraptor Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I don't think anyone can judge that but you. I'd be worried though and really have to weigh what else this person is offering before making a decision. If it's nothing spectacular you can find all of this without the ex issues. 1
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