Girlboots Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Here's my story Short version, me and a friend randomly ended. I've reached out a few times and got a bad response over text, so I'm finally going to try to talk to him in person. Everyone is saying he acted this way because he loves me, but I feel like he's angry at something. Is talking to him (AGAIN) a good thing? Or should I just move on? I've already apologized to him and everything.
Beaker78 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 To be truthfully honest I would say no don't contact him if he does love you then your only prolonging his healing phase.....and if he hates you for an other reason then again just let him be he will contact u eventually when he feels he can be friends with you again.
flitzanu Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Here's my story Short version, me and a friend randomly ended. I've reached out a few times and got a bad response over text, so I'm finally going to try to talk to him in person. Everyone is saying he acted this way because he loves me, but I feel like he's angry at something. Is talking to him (AGAIN) a good thing? Or should I just move on? I've already apologized to him and everything. so "everyone" is saying he loves you and that's why he stopped talking to you and treats you like crap? doesn't it sound more like he just doesn't want to talk to you?
Author Girlboots Posted July 12, 2012 Author Posted July 12, 2012 so "everyone" is saying he loves you and that's why he stopped talking to you and treats you like crap? doesn't it sound more like he just doesn't want to talk to you? THANK YOU! That's what I'm saying..I was really confused. Like Beaker said, if he loved me he'd contact me. I guess I just want to get to the bottom of this. Someone doesn't randomly decide to be cold for no reason...I'm wondering if I should just leave it alone
Blastoplast Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 He might love you and be hurt, but after a while if he really loved you and really cared for you he would be in contact with you. My 2 cents.
Author Girlboots Posted July 13, 2012 Author Posted July 13, 2012 I talked to him you guys! We talked for 3 hours and worked things out
Gulf-Delta Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I talked to him you guys! We talked for 3 hours and worked things out Well go post that success story, girl! 2
Frank13 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Well go post that success story, girl! Yes, please tell us. Of course you don't have to give all the personal details but give us an idea of how it went.
Frank13 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 He might love you and be hurt, but after a while if he really loved you and really cared for you he would be in contact with you. My 2 cents. Not if he knew she didn't feel the same which would make it too hard to be friends with her.
Frank13 Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 Someone doesn't randomly decide to be cold for no reason... There is/was a reason. You just don't know what it is/was. I had done the same thing because the friendship was one-sided and I knew she didn't feel the same. I tried slowly distancing myself and other times just went NC. She kept pulling me back in. It eventually ended badly. Glad to see you worked it out with him.
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