Cityslick Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 So I've been in light contact with the ex recently. Initially, I found it odd that she would just text me every 2 months or so and ask how I was doing. After about the 3rd time this has happened, I kinda got on her about the text convo's because I know for a fact she hates having conversations thru text messages. I felt like if she really wanted to talk she can pick up the phone and call me, besides, that's HER preference anyway. The last time we talked I actually called her to ask a question about my father's health, being that she is a nurse. After that enlightening conversation we got on to the things we've been up to, etc...We also talked about the breakup and she mentioned how she really felt insecure about my lack of a "career" moving forward which was I guess one of the reasons she made her decision. I feel like this is a legitmate reason however, I feel this is something that she thought through afterwards especially since she's been busy with the new boyfriend which she started dating very shortly after we broke off our 4 year relationship (they are still together). At the end of the convo, I don't know why, maybe I was feeling ballsy, but I said "you know I'm going to get you back." She replied "I hope you do" (wtf?!?!) Me: "Nah, I'm being completely honest." Her: "Me too" Completely threw me for a whirl in my head and now after almost a year of trying to cope and learn to be okay with things, I can't stop thinking about her. Then I made the ultimate mistake of friending her on facebook (don't ask why cuz idk) which she accepted (she said she would). I actually feel somewhat ashamed of myself. Basically the girl who up and left me over the phone after 4 years, started dating someone else within 2 weeks, and is getting everything handed to her by her new guy now has me on the hook and I'm playing her game. *Sigh* Yes I'm still in love with her, but I feel like this whole situation is just unfair yet I can't help myself but to jump into the fray holding whatever little hope I may have left. First time going thru it, and it seems like its going to take forever to get over it. I'm much, much better than I was a couple months ago yet I keep putting myself in the same position.
Dblock10 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 thats very strange. you need to ask her why she said i hope you do.. then get an answer and move on. she has a new boy friend. i know that sucks, my gf of 4 years also went out with someone after 2 weeks and is still with him all these years on, and she's pregnant. so yeah move on man. your find someone different and better
Sugarkane Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 No offence but she sounds really arrogant. Sort of gloating that she's with someone else but can also get you back if she wants.
Starman8 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 I would have told her "well, why don't you start by dumping your boyfriend". Something tells me she wouldn't or would give you some lame excuse. They all want to have their cake and eat it too. Don't play into these stupid immature games. 1
Dblock10 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 believe everything happens for a reason. is she really worth it? plus she's started seeing someone new.. would you really want her back now? to me it makes it concrete, and it kinda makes me feel like I've been reject as i wasn't selected. so id work on me as in work out and fill my life with other things.
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