Stiggs Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 I have NEVER had this problem before but I just can't get a read on this girl I went on a date with. I'll be quitting my job at the end of this month so it doesn't present much of a problem, but I met a girl at work and asked her out. I was quite content when she said yes. She is a nice and genuine girl, but I could never truly tell if she liked me because she seems sort of shy. A female co-worker had a conversation with this girl and she revealed she did like me but was unsure if I liked her. This was a bit of a surprise since I thought it was obvious that I liked her. We went out and much to my dismay I found out her last relationship ended with her being cheated on and she has trouble trusting men. (Greeeeaaat) The date went well with laughing and sharing on both sides. Plus she never seemed nervous when I would touch or hug her. I threw out the idea of future dates and she seemed receptive. The date ended with a hug and her telling me that she doesn't kiss on a first date. (I think she realized I wanted to kiss her). We have texted only every now and then but it is always initiated by me. I'm assuming she is being extra cautious because she's afraid I'll just somehow end up treating her like her ex did. Is there any clear way I can find out if she still likes me (without directly asking? or having to go through a co-worker again?) and there is a date 2 possibility? I don't want to seem pushy/clingy and just keep texting her. It would be nice to receive a text from her out of the blue, but I just don't see that happening...any extra details you need just tell me and I'll provide what I can!!!!
Philosoraptor Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 There is a second date possibility if you ask. Either way don't worry too much and just get to know the girl. If you like her and she likes you, great. If not then move on and find someone else. 1
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