Cake eating... Hypocrisy

[goodthingscome]

Partial quote by Delirious: "I thought BSs on here always advocate telling the BS???? There was no malice involved at all."

 

 

Umm, I don't know where this came from, but I would definitely consider the OW telling the BS about the affair as pure malice. If the OW told the BS "before" she jumped the cheating spouses bones, then, that could be considered considerate.

 

Keep pushing him honey. Let us know how that works for you.

[Emme]

Delirious what is your game plan? Get a piece a paper write down all the things that you want out of this relationship. Pros and Cons. He has his game plan and you know it already, he's waiting for this relative to die. Write down your expectations of him and him alone. If he doesn't meet them then decide whether you will accept the life you have with him as is.

 

Do not contact his wife again. Stay in your lane. They are married, you are single. The HOV lane is not for a single party. They are in a two seater car and there is no room for you. When he's ready to get out of that vehicle meet him at the gas station, then the two you can ride off into the sunset. Until then, stay in your lane.

 

You seem angry. Good. Be angry. Use that anger to get your brain to start making a definitive decision. Good luck.

[William]

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