Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I went to have lunch with a guy friend and sure enough my ex is in the same restaurant. I had never been there before, had no idea he'd be there. I walked in, saw him, couldn't believe it was him and walked out pretty fast. I texted my friend who was in there with two co-workers (he knows about my ex) told him my ex was there and starting to get up to come meet me outside. On the way out my ex apparantly said "I wonder what she's doing here" and my friend said "she's here to see me" and walked out. My ex was abusive, emotionally and physically. We were together for 2 years and he broke up with me very coldly and i've been slowly recovering in these last 5 weeks. I'm just at a loss right now. I wasn't ready to see him. I feel like I was hit by a metophorical bus. Help, am I back to day 1?
The Tallest One Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Sorry to hear about running into your ex! I fortunately live in a different city than my ex so I don't have to worry! Just keep reminding yourself that you deserve so much better and don't allow him in your head! You are on your way already so try not to let this be a set-back! Best wishes!
Dblock10 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 if he was abusive etc just move on, its hard and you are doing the right thing. this event is unfortunate. the sooner you heal the better your life will become. its all learning experiences
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