dextm Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Anyone have personal experience with girls like this? The ones that keep everything inside and refuse to open up because "all the past information is irrelevant and adds zero value to the discussion"? Also, if knowing that information wouldn't change the way you think about that person, what is the point?
amaysngrace Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Some people may not open up because they don't trust the person they're opening up to enough. Sometimes they're afraid that the person won't like them if they really got to know them.
Author dextm Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Some people may not open up because they don't trust the person they're opening up to enough. Sometimes they're afraid that the person won't like them if they really got to know them. Do you give this person a chance (because you like everything else about them for the most part) or do you immediately drop them?
amaysngrace Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Do you give this person a chance (because you like everything else about them for the most part) or do you immediately drop them? Depends on how much I like them I guess. But there's damage there so I'd really really have to like them. Then again, if I probe them that may send them running. It really just depends.
Author dextm Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 I don't.. why would anyone complain about a woman that doesn't whine about things incessantly? Because they'll whine about something else anyways, something you don't care about, but at least if they whine about something that happened in their life, you can kinda connect or relate to them? At least the convo feels more personal? YOu would rather a woman know every single detail about your life but you zero of theirs??
NYC-BigKat Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Anyone have personal experience with girls like this? The ones that keep everything inside and refuse to open up because "all the past information is irrelevant and adds zero value to the discussion"? Also, if knowing that information wouldn't change the way you think about that person, what is the point? Um...a long time ago I tried to date this cute girl like that & she wont tell me anything about her. We would just talk about school or something but nothing else. I dont like that at all .
Author dextm Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Um...a long time ago I tried to date this cute girl like that & she wont tell me anything about her. We would just talk about school or something but nothing else. I dont like that at all . But how sweet it would be if you could be the one to open them up eh.
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