WildWildWest Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I have been seeing a guy on and off for a long time now and we recently had a discussion about our "arrangement" I guess you could say.. However, I'm kinda confused on where we stand.. I really like this guy and I have no intentions of going out and looking for somebody else but I'm not sure exactly how he feels.. he told me yesterday that he's only into me and he isnt seeing anybody else.. he told me it was ok for me to have guys as friends but no sex with anybody else.. I feel like what he's describing is being in an exclusive relationship but he wont come out and just say that! I dont want to keep nagging him over just giving us a title but I want to make sure he's on the same page as me.. any adivce?
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 You're just an option, that's why it's been off and on. He's not going to have a relationship with you and is likely sleeping with other people, he just doesn't want you sleeping with anyone else because for him that would be nasty You're on the same page If you want to be a convenient option, a FWB situation...hoping for a relationship to come out of this is ridiculous, almost comical If I'm being honest with you. Men aren't off and on when they want to be with you, there's no serious feelings involved, the sooner you realize that the sooner you'll be able to decide whether you need to move on or just settle for whatever he's willing to give you and stop being "confused" there's nothing to be confused about from a mans perspective, it's very clear you just need it spelled out for you unfortunately.
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