Enjaycee Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I've been reading a lot of how-to's online on how to attract women and even re-attract ex-girlfriends. Many of them mention using how the common female thinks as a tool to help attract her to you. I'm partially skeptical, but at the same time I can also understand how people would say that. You know: Oh, well, she does this so you should do this and it will attract her. Or: She will be expecting X so if you do Y it will throw her off and make you seem different from the other guys (in a good way) Your thoughts, folks? How does this type of thinking sound to you?
Feelin Frisky Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I've not availed myself of such material. I don't think one-size-fits all female psychology fits all males (as far as men's ability to think in real time goes). If you think you can sort of micro-manage your feelings while interacting with someone who can throw you a world of curves without it all falling down like a house of cards than by all means go right ahead. I'll stand by mt own reasoning which comes down to establishing interest and seeding "want". Looks and confidence matter as does respect for women's space.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I've been reading a lot of how-to's online on how to attract women and even re-attract ex-girlfriends. Many of them mention using how the common female thinks as a tool to help attract her to you. I'm partially skeptical, but at the same time I can also understand how people would say that. You know: Oh, well, she does this so you should do this and it will attract her. Or: She will be expecting X so if you do Y it will throw her off and make you seem different from the other guys (in a good way) Your thoughts, folks? How does this type of thinking sound to you? Enjaycee, could you give an actual example, something a bit more specific.
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