xxoo Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Here is a better question. If you won the lottery would you still stay with him? Rich or poor, I want this man by my side.
g450 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Even though we divorced I would marry him again. We ultimately weren't compatible but we had some great fun and a great friendship. They say people come into our lives for different reasons and so my ex was in it for many reasons. I learned so many great lessons. He was my first love and my first almost everything. Sure we didn't last forever but that doesn't make it a mistake or regrettable. Well Im not a female but I feel the same way. Most of our 23 years together were good. She just had issues that she kept hidden from me for years and this caused us to grow apart. And we had a wonderful Son together so yes if I could go back in time I would marry her all over again. But I would have done a lot of things differently. My goal was to be with the same woman until the day I die. Now I am remarried to another wonderful woman whom on many levels I am more compatilbe with. But honestly I was happy in my first marriage. But apparently for that last few years my XW wasnt happy at all. She kept that a secret until Dday unfortunately. I have great memories from my first marriage. In a way it will never be the same as my new one because we were young and had a child together and went through tough times together. But now I look forward to making new memories with my new Wife. She is more fun to be around than my XW and definately makes life more interesting for me LOL. In return she is benefiting from my first marriage. She now has the stable loving husband that she never really had with her first marriage.
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Here is a better question. If you won the lottery would you still stay with him? No question.
eleanorrigby Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 Yes, I'd marry him again. It's been tough but I think it would have been tough no matter who I married. This marriage stuff is not for wimps! 1
dreamingoftigers Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 I'm not sure. I doubt it. He really put me through so much crap. He's a great Dad though. Hmm.... I'd stay if we won the lottery though. I'm staying now it seems, but if I had to go back in time and do it over, as long as I get to keep my daughter, I'm not so sure I would. At this point I am not so sure I would either.
HelenDanger Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 New here...this is my first post. Hope I fit in! Fingers crossed. I've been married for two years now and I would absolutely do it all over again. I chose the right guy...this time. I feel like I got this amazing bargain that no one else noticed at its true worth, if that makes sense. I work at communicating and handling my emotions every single day. Because, for me, that's what it takes. I read and study about relationships and psychology and communication all the time. It's like this huge hobby of mine. And my relationship with my husband benefits from it. I can usually name what's going on when something goes wrong and I know where to look up a fix for it. 2
Badsingularity Posted July 13, 2012 Posted July 13, 2012 I work at communicating and handling my emotions every single day. Because, for me, that's what it takes. I read and study about relationships and psychology and communication all the time. It's like this huge hobby of mine. Very cool. Sounds like my wife and I.
NervisPervis Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 I'm going to give my wife a vote by proxy. Give her a voice in a topic that is very important to her: HELL NO!!!
SadGirl81 Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 After 10 years & 4 kids I really want to say yes but the truth is, no, I wouldn't!
Miss Olivia Posted September 7, 2012 Posted September 7, 2012 I think I marry him over again but make different vows. His vows would be "I promise to fold the clothes when I take them out of the dryer," "I promise to help you clean the house and get the kids ready for bed." My vows would be "I will love, honor and cherish unless I don't feel like it." Just kidding. I love my hubby. His faults are few. He is kind, smart, selfless, and would lay down his life for me.
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