Don't know what to do

[lilmrm]

Hi there this is my first time on this site and I had something on my mind I wanted advice with. I just turned 21 at the begining of june, my bf and I have been together for 4 and a half years. We have had a wonderful relationship and he is a great caring guy. For like 4 years we were together like every single day and if we were not together we were on the phone. for the past month or so we see each other like once a week, and it really don't bother me to not talk to him on the phone. I have been going out with my friends and having fun and noticeing there is a world outside of my relationship. Now I have met other guys out there I feel like I missed a lot, and thinking of breaking up with my bf. I feel bad about it because hes a great guy and did nothing wrong. I just feel bad talking to other guys. I don't know what to do, and even if I do break up with him I don't have a clue how to tell him because he would be so crushed... I don't know if maybe this is a phase I am going through and should just let it work its self out and not break up or what. I hope I don't mess up a good thing I have for me. Please feel free to give your opinions. Thank you

[Ms_Sweetness]

I understand exactly what you mean, I went through this with my bf, but we hadn't been together half as long. It's normal for you to take a little interest in other guys, especially seeing that he is the only guy you've really known .It's ok to have guy friends, but the problem is if you are interested in more than just friendship with these other guys. Don't risk ruining a perfectly good relationship on someone you aren't sure of. Somtimes the "grass looks greener on the other side", that doesn't mean that it is though.(if you get my drift)

[BAJI]

I agree, you have something good keep it, you never know what you are walking into , but you know what you have. It's just a phase and it will pass and as Ms Sweetness says there is nothing wrong with having male friends but leave it at that.

[jonyx18]

this a little problem you've been with him for 4 years and your 21 so that means that you got with him at 16 you were very young wright now i feel like you ive been in 2 -3 yr relationships and i feel like i haven't lived they were all i new for about these last 6 years and now that im finally free ( not by choice im also 21)

there is a whole world out there the dateing world the going out and getting drunk meeting new people being able to get to know something new

 

sweety its not all thats cracked up to be men wright now suckkk and i promise u all they want u for is for sex stay with the man you have u will regret loosing him i know i did this with my first relatonship i left my first fiancee because i just got bored we were exactly the same and the sparks were gone in the relationship

 

to be with the worlds biggest a hole damn do i regret it he beat me lied cheated and guess what?? what goes around comes around he left me cuz he got bored

 

and worst of all every day that passes by i regret having left chris (My One True love) i still think about him every single day

 

NOW I NOTICE WE WAS MENT TO BE!!! BUT I COULDN'T SEE THAT CUZ I JUST WANTED TO HAVE FUN

[Phyluvsbells]

OK LILMRM

try to think of FUSSY BABY BLIND and perhaps it will broaden your horizons