Lulufaboo Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Ok, so I met this really amazing guy and we hit it off. Went out on our first date and had a blast. I mean talked and laughed for 2 and a half hours. The waitress practically kicked us out. He suggested, first I might add, about future times together and going on a second date. Again, as he was taking me home I asked him about this little sno-cone place and he said we would definitely have to get one next time we went out. When we sat in his car for a few minutes he told me to give him a call before I went to bed. He fell asleep before I got a chance to call. He texted me the next morning and apologized for fallig asleep and asked how I was doing. Just a simple good morning text. Then I text him later in the day but he was busy so I said I would talk to him later. He texted me that night and fell asleep again. He IS an early to bed kind of guy though, he told me that even before we went on our date. Anyway, yesterday I broke the cardinal rule..... I texted him first. He was at work so I said I would talk to him later, he told me what time he got off work. I didn't hear anything from him. Broke the stupid rule again and text to see how his day was. Fast forward to today, no word from him at all. Did he mean it that he wanted a second date? Did I screw it up royally?
louise_23 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 sigh. he's a jerk. you havent done anything wrong, i think he's just given you the brushoff. dont contact him again unless he contacts you first. if he DOES contact you again, may i recommend you buy him a huge jar of coffee and a polygraph test.
january2011 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 He may have meant it at the time. But he may have also changed his mind in the intervening period. It may not have been anything that you did specifically. He said that he'd do X, Y, Z, but didn't. You don't need a guy who is unreliable and can't be taken at his word. I'd move on. If he does get in touch again, then decide if you feel there's enough there to pick up where you left off. Otherwise, accept that the ball was dropped and the trail has gone cold. Time to focus on something/someone else.
Author Lulufaboo Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Thank you, both. I hate this because I have NEVER had the feelings for a guy that I have for him. I mean, like instant, physical and emotional attraction. I haven't contacted him again and I'm waiting. I am an optimist so I'm hoping that I will hear from him once he has a few days off again. Ugh, I hate dating
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I am an optimist so I'm hoping that I will hear from him once he has a few days off again. Ugh, I hate dating Ha, optimism...look if a guy doesn't do it and follow through then he didn't mean it? make sense? Says = action = means it = consistency Do you really think that If he was as crazy about you as him that he would be waiting to talk to you again? Either that or he's got something else going on and putting you on the backburner for a few days.
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