BritRN Posted July 7, 2004 Posted July 7, 2004 I need some advice regarding this guy at work. The other week, I was brave enough to email this guy out on a date, and a few days later he replied and he gave me his telephone number and private email address. He said that he was busy for a week and that he would call me the following week. I know this too be true and we saw each other breifly each day and he would smile and say hello.. It appeared as if he was going to call, after all we had, had a conversation on the phone for about two hours prior to the start of the week, where he said that he would call me and we would go out for dinner, and see where it leads etc. I was all excited and the last week at work. Now he said that he was going to call on either the 5th or 6th of July and now I am thinking that he isnt going to call. I am sensing that although he was giving me the signals that he was interested and was going to call, that the tables have now turned and he is not. Why do you think that he changed his mind so quickly. I am 100% certain that there is no-one else. He is 38 and I am 32, it is not as though we are teenagers. I guess that I am a little disappointed, as we are single adults and I thought that there was something there. Oh well...Any advice as to understanding this side of men is very welcome.
Bojickwoman Posted July 7, 2004 Posted July 7, 2004 I have not a clue. Sometimes, what men are thinking is a mystery to me. Hang in there. The ball is in his court. If he is truly interested he will call you, but don't go chasing after him because it will turn him off.
Author BritRN Posted July 7, 2004 Author Posted July 7, 2004 Thanks for the reply, I have no intention on calling him. Just makes me wonder how men tick......
Bojickwoman Posted July 7, 2004 Posted July 7, 2004 I think the issues on how men and women think differently is going to be debated for ages to come, but a really interesting book you can get for ****s and giggles is from the Mars/Venus series called "Mars and Venus on a Date". While the first book was more geared towards couples who are married, this book deals with people who are single and in the dating game. If I ever get into the dating game again, I am going to reference this book completely and see if it works. I'll be my own science experiement! LOL
Author BritRN Posted July 8, 2004 Author Posted July 8, 2004 I have just brought the book and it is very good
dudesomewhere Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 hell I don't change my mind unless of course I come to find you are a liar...then of course I'd have to...cuz you know, if you say you love me and I say I love you but later find out you lied...well then I'd have to change my mind. bah, you women are the same
Author BritRN Posted July 8, 2004 Author Posted July 8, 2004 Not sure why you are mad, I am just disappointed and looking for advice. I liked this guy alot, and are not sure why he had not called, when we had, had such a good and long conversation.
Author BritRN Posted July 8, 2004 Author Posted July 8, 2004 I have to say that he does not work at my facility anymore, as of the 5th he is out of work. Suffice to say he is a doctor and I am a nurse. Yes he could call, but I have decided that I may not want to date a guy that works 80hrs a week, and would never have time to date, in between his pager going off....Besides it is easier now as I will never see him again
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