aRealMan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I read a post on here about a guy and his experience, but I was wondering if anyone else has any. After I read his post, I google "foreign women vs american women" and found loads of articles and comments. These are taken from the "AskMen" website: "I have a lot more respect for foreign women then american women by far. I won't date a woman who was born and raised here. The chance of her having her act together are too small to take the risk. Foreign women are women. American women have too many masculine traits for me. Foreign women still respect family. They put their family before all else. American women do not. They walk for no reason at all. I have not ruled them out completely but she'd really have to blow my mind to get me to take a second look." " In my experience, foreign women are very good, high quality women.To be completely honest, American women are very low quality trash, don't deserve my time, and it's time men recognize this" "When a foreign woman (non-westernized) wants something from her husband, she spoils him. When an American woman wants something from her husband, she divorces him. I urge all my single, male friends to seriously consider going overseas for a long term relationship. Outsourcing brides is a natural reaction to the state of gender relations here in the United States." **I bolded the comments just so that it would be easier to tell that there were different comments** I went to plenty of different websites after trying that search, and it seems like these guys are having the time of their lives with foreign women. They say that they are down to earth, fun, funny, family oriented, self-less, not cheap, less (if any) entitlements. They make it seem like foreign women enjoy getting getting to know men, instead of their belongings. I'm starting to get jealous of those guys. Try it for yourself: google "american women or foreign women"
Pyro Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I am married to a wonderful 'foreign' woman but that doesn't mean that I think of American woman as a whole any less. I am sure that there are many message boards out there filled with men who feel the same way as you. You should go check them out.
SarahRose Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 good women from a foreign country have their choice of men in their own country. why do you think they would seek a husband from another country? it is probably different if you are talking about foreign women from other first world countries but if you are talking about women from third world countries then beware. try googling russian bride scam or filipina scam think about it, the most attractive thing about a western man is his wallet and a green card to a third world woman. this traditional woman stuff is mostly rubbish. these women watch american tv and they want the things they see. they will put on a big act until you get them over there and then 2 years later they file for divorce and bring their real husband or boyfriend over.
Algermas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 For me women from the US and Northwestern Europe are ( flawed ) biological fleshlights. If I were to ever engage in a serious relationship again it'd be with a woman from pretty much anywhere but North America and Northwestern Europe.
Algermas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 good women from a foreign country have their choice of men in their own country. why do you think they would seek a husband from another country? it is probably different if you are talking about foreign women from other first world countries but if you are talking about women from third world countries then beware. try googling russian bride scam or filipina scam think about it, the most attractive thing about a western man is his wallet and a green card to a third world woman. this traditional woman stuff is mostly rubbish. these women watch american tv and they want the things they see. they will put on a big act until you get them over there and then 2 years later they file for divorce and bring their real husband or boyfriend over. In other words just like an American woman except 200 pounds lighter and willing to pretend they like you for two whole years after getting married. Roughly 900% superior to American women, sounds like a decent deal. 2
phineas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I get approached mostly by foreign women. It really doesn't go anywhere but that's my only experience with women not born in the U.S.
Emilia Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I went to plenty of different websites after trying that search, and it seems like these guys are having the time of their lives with foreign women. They say that they are down to earth, fun, funny, family oriented, self-less, not cheap, less (if any) entitlements. They make it seem like foreign women enjoy getting getting to know men, instead of their belongings. I'm starting to get jealous of those guys. Try it for yourself: google "american women or foreign women" I assume foreign here probably means women from developing countries I think anyone that dismisses half of the population in their own country has serious issues. They don't fit in well within their own society. Maybe struggled to make friends at school? Who knows? The article seems to be about men who want a subservient wife rather than an equal partner. I think a lot of those women are probably poorer to start with therefore their requirements are lower for the average American. That's just a lower cost case basically. A bit sad really. By the way I'm not American, not even a Westerner so more likely to fit in the demographic these men target 1
Astro Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I like american/european woman than asian woman. I don't know why these white girls respect me more than the asian girls. I went out with these white girls, I could make a nice convo with them, walk by my side. One of them even gave me a nice birthday gift when she lives far away (another side of the world). One asian lady did not even want to walk by me, she preferred to walk behind me after dinner. Bah, she's just an average looking girl. I think it's because you're white men, they're become more submissive and respectful to you, but to their own kind (I am from asia), they are f***ing s**t until I don't give a damn to their attitudes. I am also think they are boring and cannot hold a good conversation. If I am going out, I would still prefer a white girl, not because of the color, but the respect. Well, maybe I only know these nice girls, not the rowdy ones.
amaysngrace Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I know a bunch of foreign women but most of them are actually late teens, early twenties. They are here on a visa working and they are great girls. I don't know what kind of woman you're looking for honestly but I can tell you these girls are very mature and self-sufficient and probably wouldn't tolerate much crap from a guy just like a level-headed American girl wouldn't.
ohmygoshistalk Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 (edited) good women from a foreign country have their choice of men in their own country. why do you think they would seek a husband from another country? it is probably different if you are talking about foreign women from other first world countries but if you are talking about women from third world countries then beware. try googling russian bride scam or filipina scam think about it, the most attractive thing about a western man is his wallet and a green card to a third world woman. this traditional woman stuff is mostly rubbish. these women watch american tv and they want the things they see. they will put on a big act until you get them over there and then 2 years later they file for divorce and bring their real husband or boyfriend over. Stereotyping much? Lots of foreign women prefer western men because of: 1)The men in their country are playboys or have grown so complacent that they dont know how to treat their women right (have mistresses, multiple gf's, etc) 2)Most men also from these countries want their women to work while they stay home and womanize further 3)Female to male ratio (there are some countries where the female population is slightly higher than the male population). I have a lot of foreign friends due to my dad working for the embassy and your stereotypical posts are hurtful and ignorant, but of course, pretty common. You sound so threatened by the way. By the way, anyone can be scammed. You don't need to look for it. Growing up in another country, I have also noticed that most American women are more spoiled than any other women..what I mean is that they are spoiled by their men, like, treated really really well (which is how women are supposed to be treated anyway) in other countries beautiful women are dime a dozen and nobody goes begging for a girl. Anyone can usually get a girl (or more than 1 girl). I don't want anyone to dismiss American or western women per se because that would really lower your chances of meeting the one that is supposed to be right for you. Keep all your options open. Just because you got turned down several times doesn't mean you should give up and generalize/stereotype just like that woman w/ the bikini avatar. Edited July 10, 2012 by ohmygoshistalk
HeavenOrHell Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Had to laugh at the subject line! The word 'foreign' could mean anything, I'm British so you're foreign to me if you're American. We're all foreign. Blah!
FitChick Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I like British guys. A lot of British women seem to like American men. Grass is Greener Syndrome? Maybe some of us like men a bit unpredictable so not as boring as our fellow countrymen.
zengirl Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I always laugh when I hear the term "foreign" women, especially on a board like LS which is at least somewhat international. We're all foreigners somewhere! At any rate, certainly Westernized countries (not just America) differ from non-Westernized countries, especially in regards to relationships, the purpose of marriage, and gender equality. If you're looking for a marriage based on traditional gender roles, power, and/or economics, sure, easier to find in less Western countries, particularly the ones with the worst gender equality. For obvious reasons. Though you can find those sort of partnerships in Western countries too, in various forms. I know many Rs, like Pyro's (who posted in this thread), where there are people from two different countries who got together that are still based on romantic love, mutual respect, and so forth. Generally that doesn't come from seeking out a cultural difference on the basis of power, but being open to them and meeting people. All good, there. Traveling should open your mind, not close it further. At any rate, I've dated all over, including in the non-Western world. Dating is different everywhere, but there's no place where it's really 'easier' or 'harder'. Some people will always get GIGS, wherever they are.
Lobouspo Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I have dated a Ukranian woman and a Cuban woman. One thing I liked about them they did not take anything for granted, coming from countries where you just didnt live, but SURVIVED. Both were awesome cooks as well. The bad I guess is they really expected the man to provide much more (i.e. gifts always pay for dates) than American women I have dated. Also just basic cultural differences became problematic with both of them.
Author aRealMan Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 good women from a foreign country have their choice of men in their own country. why do you think they would seek a husband from another country? it is probably different if you are talking about foreign women from other first world countries but if you are talking about women from third world countries then beware. try googling russian bride scam or filipina scam think about it, the most attractive thing about a western man is his wallet and a green card to a third world woman. this traditional woman stuff is mostly rubbish. these women watch american tv and they want the things they see. they will put on a big act until you get them over there and then 2 years later they file for divorce and bring their real husband or boyfriend over. Isn't it the same exact way here? I assume foreign here probably means women from developing countries I think anyone that dismisses half of the population in their own country has serious issues. They don't fit in well within their own society. Maybe struggled to make friends at school? Who knows? The article seems to be about men who want a subservient wife rather than an equal partner. I think a lot of those women are probably poorer to start with therefore their requirements are lower for the average American. That's just a lower cost case basically. A bit sad really. By the way I'm not American, not even a Westerner so more likely to fit in the demographic these men target Sounds like you're intimidated of competition and the thought that foreigners make better for relationships instead doing the whole "I'm up for equality until it no longer benefits me" childish thing that you all tend to do. Had to laugh at the subject line! The word 'foreign' could mean anything, I'm British so you're foreign to me if you're American. We're all foreign. Blah! Yes... didn't really think about that
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 The main difference is that "foreign" women(meaning, probably East European) are poorer. Their supposed "superiority" isn't because of better breeding but rather they have to put up with more male bull**** in order to survive.
Feelsgoodman Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 this traditional woman stuff is mostly rubbish. these women watch american tv and they want the things they see. they will put on a big act until you get them over there and then 2 years later they file for divorce and bring their real husband or boyfriend over. Nonsense. American TV or not, there is no question that women in eastern europe, asia and many other parts of the world are far more traditional than American women. True, the ones looking to marry a foreigner are mostly gold-diggers but so are the millions of American women trying to marry a rich guy. 1
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 (edited) Nonsense. American TV or not, there is no question that women in eastern europe, asia and many other parts of the world are far more traditional than American women. True, the ones looking to marry a foreigner are mostly gold-diggers but so are the millions of American women trying to marry a rich guy. They are more "traditional" because they are poorer! Give them some money, and see how long their demure behavior lasts. I don't have a problem with men who want to buy the affections of foreign women, but be honest about it. Edited July 10, 2012 by Curtis24
Feelsgoodman Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 They are more "traditional" because they are poorer! Give them some money, and see how long their demure behavior lasts. I don't have a problem with men who want to use prostitutes, just be honest about what you're doing. So you're saying that money is the root of all evil? You may be right. More reason to avoid spoiling women.
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