WonderKid Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 i think i only like black girls so much because of her. i was so into her but she made me too nervous when she started flirting and that probably turned her off. it didn't help that there was this big good looking black guy who would sometimes sit right next to her every time she's talking to me and start cockblocking. that's probably going to be a problem too isnt it.. cockblocking black guys? I hate cockblockers but they're always around. I know how to deal with them. But I don't let them bother me. Because girls love it because it's attention, but they also know when a guy is trying hard. If you ask her out on a date. Then that will negate the cockblocking problem. You got a car. Pick her up and take her out. If you still cool with her that is. Now if she isn't showing interest and stuff, leave her alone. Sorry to say. But its no sense in trying if she's not showing interest.
Author socrushed Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 I hate cockblockers but they're always around. I know how to deal with them. But I don't let them bother me. Because girls love it because it's attention, but they also know when a guy is trying hard. If you ask her out on a date. Then that will negate the cockblocking problem. You got a car. Pick her up and take her out. If you still cool with her that is. Now if she isn't showing interest and stuff, leave her alone. Sorry to say. But its no sense in trying if she's not showing interest. i wish i knew how to play the game. A cockblocker by what i perceive to be a more attractive dominant male just makes me go back in my shell and stay quiet. I have no confidence... And we're not cool anymore... i posted another thread here about how she made me cry . i can't talk to her anymore without feeling like crying again, i hate how she led me on pretending that she wants to go on a date with me. I want another girl like her, but not her specifically
WonderKid Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I personally don't know if you have the mentality for girls like her. But I say go for it. Ghetto black girls like money, cars, and swag. They don't like awkwardness, being broke, and bored. Being aggressive helps too. She kinda ate you alive. Just move onto the next man. Don't invest ANY feelings! I repeat that. Better yet. Go to YouTube, type in Akwesi100 strong black woman. You'll see a black guy sitting in a chair. He will give you the absolute detail on black women and get you some different insights. He's funny too. (To me at least.) But he makes some great points. And a lot of women hate him for it. But he targets black women more. Try and look at those vids.
WonderKid Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Better yet hear ya go. MANIPULATING GOOD MEN WILL ONLY COME BACK TO KICK YOU IN THE ASS - YouTube LoL I looked it up for old time's sake
Author socrushed Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 im not sure if i like that guy's style. he spends a lot of time hating on this one woman for stringing him along. i think it's better to go for the laid back carefree approach.. or else you're just giving her too much power. because one of the main reason he's upset is because he wasn't able to get with her, she still has all the control here. i had very very strong feelings for her, and it hurt like crazy when i realized she was just playing me. but ... gotta move on and not care, can't let her win, right? even hating on her is giving her power over me, indifference is key... easier said than done i know, but that's the road i'd like to take. do you think black girls will like silliness? if i act a bit clumsy and awkward and make dumb jokes around her, but i'm self-aware of it, you nkow what i mean..? i've never put myself out there before, but right now thats how i would be if i do put myself out there.
WonderKid Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Sure they like silliness and sense of humor I wouldn't know why not. I liked all the vids because he made some very interesting points. But what I took from that vid is sniffing out the BS before you step in it. You can be laid back, but you have to take some steps also before having very, very strong feelings for anyone. Don't invest your feelings into any woman that doesn't give you any back. Doing a lot of the basic things in those videos will prevent you from getting hurt like you did. And its alright to be yourself. Who else can you be right? Just still have that self-confidence and if you're with a woman and you're uncomfortable with being yourself then she isn't for you. She should be able to like you for who you are in the longrun. Stop hating her. Move on. Stop letting her win. And don't lay all your cards on the table. Stop getting attached so quickly. Because you seem like a nice dude, but in honestly, you need to watch out. There are worse women out there than her. Men like to take advantage of women's body, but they like to take advantage of our minds. And with the niceness you have--you could end up running into the wrong woman if you don't protect yourself.
USMCHokie Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Knew in the biblical sense? Did you bump uglies? Was it good? Anything of interesting note about it? Am I being too nosy? LOL You don't have to answer any of that, I'm just having fun as usual. I know some black guys really like Bruce Lee and Kung Fu movies, and they LOVE slender feminine demur submissive Asian chicks with long silky black hair and pretty, intriguing mysterious come hither Asian eyes. So perhaps the same is true now and then for black chicks liking Asian guys. Different is fun! Hahah, it never got that far to full bumping of uglies...
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