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Personally, I think men are more easily led around by their sexual hormones and women are more easily led around by their emotional ones.

 

Right and they say men cheat for physical reasons and women cheat for emotional reasons but they both involve fking??? Hmmm???

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My recently divorced friend is a chick magnet women throw themselves at him all the time,a lot of these women are married women.One just got married a week ago and a few days later sent him naked pics of herself

 

Others do the same and tell him how hot is he compared to their husbands...I know its not every women but stuff like this makes me evne more leery that if a find a women who accepts me sho wont be that attracted to me and will cheat on me with a good looking guy..

 

I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes

 

Even the married women in our social circle "playfully" flirt with him it makes me think good looking men can get most women to stray

 

Damn str8 we can homeboy LMAO. I've ****ed 4 in the last month & 1 had a man. I nailed 10 last yr around this time & 6 had a bf so u know what's up now dont u? :D

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But it's true. Without women, no man would be here! And yes, it's a joint effort, but to not acknowledge the fact that women support the actual physical hardship of actually birthing a human being inside their bodies, something men simply don't do, would be foolish.

 

You don't ilke the fact that someone undermined men with the "small brain" comment. I am not a fan of of saying men think with their "small brains" either. I think it's a condesending and degrading comment to make toward men. I think men are better then that. But why are you so bent on diminishing women even as you clearly don't like men being diminished?

 

Pushing out an infant is the least you can do, considering everything else in society is strictly men's efforts without any of your gender's help. And I'm not even "bent on diminishing" anyone. I just find it funny when women make certain comments about how they're "more advanced", "more mature, etc than men, when in reality, we'd still be in caves without men. They're the reason we have anything. If we all lived life like women, nothing would ever happen, because no one would have any confidence, and we'd be sitting around waiting for someone else to do anything.

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Do u not feel attracted to different types of men depending on what part of the cycle youre on?

 

I really don't. I might be more excited sometimes but it's never changed the type of man I was attracted to or my attraction for my partners.

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that is complete bs, simply observing men how ridiculous they act (running into lamp posts or being almost mown over by a car when seeing an attractive woman, forking money over to women just to see a bit of their skin) is proof enough that men's already-small-brain-to-begin-with goes straight down to their waistline.

 

actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. :rolleyes:

 

and as usual, DY tells it like it is.

 

Nah babe, men are far more logical in the worldly sense so dont get it all twisted boo LOL. Kats like me just wanna nail a sexy smooth body. We're programmed like that. Dont get this twisted with whats really important.

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People in relationships are notorious for flirting for fun. I wouldn't hold your friend to too much high regard. He might be attractive and click a switch in women, but he should take it with a pinch of salt. Good looks can be a curse and a blessing at the same time.

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that is complete bs, simply observing men how ridiculous they act (running into lamp posts or being almost mown over by a car when seeing an attractive woman, forking money over to women just to see a bit of their skin) is proof enough that men's already-small-brain-to-begin-with goes straight down to their waistline.

 

actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. :rolleyes:

 

and as usual, DY tells it like it is.

 

Women have a behavior altering cycle caused entirely by hormones. There are vast amounts of women that'll admit they keep going back to certain men they intellectually know aren't good for them but turn them on like no other.

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A few of my friends' girlfriends use to flirt with me, even when my friends were around. It was disappointing because they weren't in a relationship with guys that they were attracted to. It's just that these guys are 'safe' and would do anything for them. I never let them get to close because one thing could lead to another.

 

My ex-girlfriend use to flirt with other guys as well. Guess what? After we broke up, she went out (and is still going out with) one of the guy's she use to flirt with when we were in a relationship. That guy use to be my friend.

 

Thankfully I've witnessed enough to recognise what I deem as inappropriate behaviour. If a girl does what my ex-girlfriend does to me in the future, she's out of my life right there and then.

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Guided by logic my ass.

 

The fact that women's behaviour is dictated by what time of the month it is has finally hit mainstream media in the last few yrs.

You can finally find articles that put emphasis on studies linking female infidelity and their level of attractiveness with the period of Ovulation.

A few weeks ago i saw an article on a women's site that advocated that women should take pictures for their CV/social media/dating site profile when they were ovulating because they looked more appealing.

Affirmative action in the US still hasn't put women in exact sciences even though there's a huge emphasis on that one [the Math 55 incident a few yrs back].

There are even books and testimonials from leading psychologists about the obvious differences between the makeup of the male and female brain [simon Baron Cohen for instance].

 

It seems that to many women still today to suggest that there are differences between men and women that mean women may be less likely to be as good as men at something or less inclined to follow a certain career path is still akin to 'demeaning' and 'demonizing' women.

 

Getting to the subject in the OP, i have seen that too.

If you want fast sex the easiest way is to put a fake wedding band on your finger and invent a family, play family guy they get to make go bad, or to say you are gay [it takes longer to work for this one and it's harder].

I know several men who's sex lives have gotten better since they put the wedding band on, because women showed more interest in them and they ended up with something on the side.

 

I am friends with 2 brothers who are currently engaged with some incredibly charming ladies, who when it was known that they were engaged got invaded with propositions from women.

They literally came out of the woodwork, flirting, taking an interest, etc ...

I'm happy to say that they are not even thinking of cheating, and they haven't cheated so far, but they are amazed at the ammount of girls that throw themselves at them. No married ones so far.

The fact that they are in the army might help them too [they are both officers].

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actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. :rolleyes:

 

 

This is the biggest bunch of crap I've ever read

 

Women are guided by their emotions. If they say they are logic bound, they just mask their emotions within their own logic.

 

Anybody that watches Hells Kitchen could see this post is proven true last night as there was a lesbian on the show tripping her **** over David Beckham. Women are impulsive and wired that way

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He might be attractive and click a switch in women, but he should take it with a pinch of salt. Good looks can be a curse and a blessing at the same time.

 

Ahh yes. The pitfalls of being exceptionally attractive to the opposite sex and having almost infinite dating options. When will those people catch a break.

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Just don't start thinking that women are good, honest, virtuous, or loyal, and you'll do fine.

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Money, looks, intelligence, artistic ability..... But for men, as long as she is hot, it's all good.

 

 

Not really. The man has to be in her same socioeconomic class, and not a social outcast, but that's about it.

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funny how the women in this thread try to deny reality ;)

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But, when you have both, you can choose from whatever comedumpster you want.

 

 

No man can have every woman or even a majority of woman, due to women only pursuing men with similar genetic codes.

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Ive seen this firsthand years ago when certain times of the month my friends wife would tell me how hot iam becauae im the leader of the group and more masculine and alpha then her laid back passive husband

 

:rolleyes:

 

What she really meant to say is that you were better-looking.

 

Anwyway, true thread. IN fact, there has been a host of research that shows women will marry a guy who makes money, but cheat on him with a handsome man/men. Nothing new.

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Just don't start thinking that women are good, honest, virtuous, or loyal, and you'll do fine.

 

Let's say you lived in a repressive society which dictated that you had to marry an ugly woman. If you didn't, you would be socially ostracized, mocked, become a homeless person, etc. Yet there were beautiful women walking around, who wanted to have sex with you.

 

What would you do?

 

You'd probably just play along, and then have sex with a beautiful woman any chance you got.

 

Furthermore, you wouldn't feel bad about it. You'd feel resentment and contempt for those who repressed your sexuality. Just as women do.

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Let's say you lived in a repressive society which dictated that you had to marry an ugly woman. If you didn't, you would be socially ostracized, mocked, become a homeless person, etc. Yet there were beautiful women walking around, who wanted to have sex with you.

 

What would you do?

 

You'd probably just play along, and then have sex with a beautiful woman any chance you got.

 

Furthermore, you wouldn't feel bad about it. You'd feel resentment and contempt for those who repressed your sexuality. Just as women do.

Huh?!

 

Since when has society dictated that women had to marry ugly men?

 

Try again.

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Huh?!

 

Since when has society dictated that women had to marry ugly men?

 

Try again.

 

They do because they don't make as much money as ugly men do.

 

In fact we still live in a repressive society.

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They do because they don't make as much money as ugly men do.

 

In fact we still live in a repressive society.

Actually they typically make more money than ugly men. Attractive people overall make more money than unattractive people. So the attractive guys end up with the top level jobs making the most money, and the uglier men end up in middle management, or blue collar jobs. Women are taking over middle management (although there is a glass ceiling), and ugly men are relegated to the blue collar jobs they can still get or sales. Entry level pink collar jobs pay better than experienced blue collar jobs, so women are making more typically than ugly men. Craftsmen/skilled tradesmen and entrepreneurs are the only exceptions, and some of those are women. I have a degree, and more talent in my little finger than most of the "professional" momtographers, but many of them make more than I do, because females want to hire a female. Basically, what I'm saying is, in every arena except for top level corporate jobs, women make more money than men.

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They do because they don't make as much money as ugly men do.

 

In fact we still live in a repressive society.

 

Everything you post makes no sense

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Everything you post makes no sense

 

We have another whiteknight on board. You can always spot them, because they chase down male posters and try to "correct" them or give them labels while completely ignoring all of the female posters with their pro-female, male- critiquing, and false-entitlement-having replies.

 

For the most part, this board is very pro-female

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