AD1980 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 My recently divorced friend is a chick magnet women throw themselves at him all the time,a lot of these women are married women.One just got married a week ago and a few days later sent him naked pics of herself Others do the same and tell him how hot is he compared to their husbands...I know its not every women but stuff like this makes me evne more leery that if a find a women who accepts me sho wont be that attracted to me and will cheat on me with a good looking guy.. I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes Even the married women in our social circle "playfully" flirt with him it makes me think good looking men can get most women to stray
Algermas Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 My recently divorced friend is a chick magnet women throw themselves at him all the time,a lot of these women are married women.One just got married a week ago and a few days later sent him naked pics of herself Others do the same and tell him how hot is he compared to their husbands...I know its not every women but stuff like this makes me evne more leery that if a find a women who accepts me sho wont be that attracted to me and will cheat on me with a good looking guy.. I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes Even the married women in our social circle "playfully" flirt with him it makes me think good looking men can get most women to stray Women are guided by their hormones to a far greater degree than men are. 1
sid3 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 My recently divorced friend is a chick magnet women throw themselves at him all the time,a lot of these women are married women.One just got married a week ago and a few days later sent him naked pics of herself Others do the same and tell him how hot is he compared to their husbands...I know its not every women but stuff like this makes me evne more leery that if a find a women who accepts me sho wont be that attracted to me and will cheat on me with a good looking guy.. I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes Even the married women in our social circle "playfully" flirt with him it makes me think good looking men can get most women to stray I won't comment on good looking guys having the ability to make most women stray. I will say, take off the rose colored glasses and realize women are sexual beings too.
PJKino Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes I really dont even know why the myth was the other way around,ever see women and how they flip over hot celebrities?? Its way more creepier then men but women get a pass for it because i guess theyre not as strong as men and seen as more harmless
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Women are guided by their hormones to a far greater degree than men are. Please show some actual real information where this has been medically substantiated! Personally, I think men are more easily led around by their sexual hormones and women are more easily led around by their emotional ones. I know that this is now considered un PC to say and that some women will disagree and say they are just as horny as guys, and they very well may be, but in my experience, sex is a bigger weakness for men and emotions are a bigger weakness for women. This could be due to certain amounts of socialization that allows men a bit more freedom when it comes to sexuality and women a bit more freedom when it comes to expressing emotions. I also think it's sometimes simply a male female thing. I would say that women are subject to their hormones just as much as men can be even if this can play out in different ways. A woman is more likely to get too wrapped up her hormones if she goes out on a date with a man she really likes and sleeps with him too quickly. Usually this isn't something that men have to worry about. If they get wrapped up in their homones and sleep with a woman on the first date, it's doubtful he is going to worry that he made a mistake and she won't respect him in the morning. I tend to think that even though the OP sees women in this specific case throwing themselves at a hot guy, women are still less likely to fall for a pretty face in the same way men can easily fall for. For most women to even just want to have sex with a man, there has to be some level of respect for some thing he has is what she thinks he may be. Money, looks, intelligence, artistic ability..... But for men, as long as she is hot, it's all good. Although, perhaps the perspective of married women looking to cheat is different then from someone like men, single currently and never married. Perhaps once you've been to the circus and seen the strings behind the current, some women have the marriage tarnish wear off and are simply looking for a good time that men stereotypically are said to enjoy. But to claim women are MORE controlled by their homones then men is a hugely false. Women usually will be controlled by different things because the nature of being woman usually wants different things out of life then the nature of a man may want. This doesn't mean men and women can't want the same thing and be in sync. It just means that in the most shallow form, I tend to find men more controlled by lust and poor choices when it comes to lust and women are more controlled by emotions. It's the reason women don't purchase sex as much as men and that there is much more porn that focuses on women and their bodies then men and theirs. OP, my suggestion to you is to refocus your energy on single women that appear to have good heads on their shoulders and not married ones throwing themselves at hot guys. Both of these kind of women exist. If you look for the good in women, you may find that there are actually a decent amount of good women out there despite the women that are out there making poor choices. And yes, the women that are married hitting on your hot friend are clearly making poor choices. They aren't exactly a model of womanhood if you ask me. 1
Negative Nancy Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Women are guided by their hormones to a far greater degree than men are. that is complete bs, simply observing men how ridiculous they act (running into lamp posts or being almost mown over by a car when seeing an attractive woman, forking money over to women just to see a bit of their skin) is proof enough that men's already-small-brain-to-begin-with goes straight down to their waistline. actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. and as usual, DY tells it like it is.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 and as usual, DY tells it like it is. Thanks NN. Much love to ya. But I would also have to disagree that women are guided by logic more then men too.
sid3 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 that is complete bs, simply observing men how ridiculous they act (running into lamp posts or being almost mown over by a car when seeing an attractive woman, forking money over to women just to see a bit of their skin) is proof enough that men's already-small-brain-to-begin-with goes straight down to their waistline. actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. and as usual, DY tells it like it is. Funny, men may pay to see skin(strip club) but I've yet to see them giving oral to a striper in front of a crowd like women do in their little striper parties. The reality eludes you. How many men attend sex toy parties? Yeah, none. His premise may be a little off, but its not entirely flawed. Yeah, I almost rearended another car looking at an attractive woman, but I've never carried a child for nine months because I saw an attractive member of the opposite sex. Which sex has less self control wasn't the topoc of the OP though. 3
lino Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 'already-small-brain-to-begin-with' Hahaha yeah right. Like the one of the guy who designed the computer you're using to make your enlightening commentry with 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Funny, men may pay to see skin(strip club) but I've yet to see them giving oral to a striper in front of a crowd like women do in their little striper parties. The reality eludes you. How many men attend sex toy parties? Yeah, none. His premise may be a little off, but its not entirely flawed. Yeah, I almost rearended another car looking at an attractive woman, but I've never carried a child for nine months because I saw an attractive member of the opposite sex. Which sex has less self control wasn't the topoc of the OP though. A) I have never in my life ever heard of or seen a woman giving oral to a stripper. B) For every one male strip joint there are 20 female ones. C) That's true, men do not give oral to strippers. They get it from strippers in private rooms while they are celebrating their friend's or their own marriage to one woman. Yay! D) You never carried a child around for nine months because you are a man. Not because men that make women pregnant, just because she may be attractive, make better choices. It takes two to make a baby and just because one carries the baby around for two months doesn't make her choice to sleep with someone just because they were attractive a worse choice then the man that knocked her up. 1
Woggle Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I am not defending men who act like this but please stop acting like one gender is worse than the other.
Negative Nancy Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 'already-small-brain-to-begin-with' Hahaha yeah right. Like the one of the guy who designed the computer you're using to make your enlightening commentry with just another proof that men do stuff to impress women in hopes of getting with them 1
ascendotum Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I have to admit I read about this more on LS (married women hitting on hot guys) than I've seen. For me hanging out with good looking married guys, I've seen much more cases of single women hitting on the married guys (instigated by the woman). Good looking guys get tempted a lot. Hanging out with my really good looking mates, you do see a different dating paradigm. Getting laid is soo eezi. Personally I don't see any problem with married women 'playfully' flirting, same with married men, as long as they are conscious not to step over the boundary where it can be interpreted as hitting on the other person.
USMCHokie Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Women are guided by their hormones to a far greater degree than men are. Actually, the documentary, The Science of Sex Appeal, seemed to suggest that women are the ones more prone to cheating due to hormones, or moreso the change in hormones in the menstrual cycle. During ovulation, women were found to be more attracted to certain features which often differed (more masculine) from the features of their partners. Again, this was just one study...hardly conclusive...but I'm sure nowhere near as conclusive as some of the conclusory statements made in this thread... actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. But I would also have to disagree that women are guided by logic more then men too. This is actually the first time I've ever seen or heard this...literature I've read has repeated suggested that women are considerably more apt to be controlled by emotions...again pointing to the menstrual cycle... 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 This is actually the first time I've ever seen or heard this...literature I've read has repeated suggested that women are considerably more apt to be controlled by emotions...again pointing to the menstrual cycle... Not too clear on what your saying Hokie..can you explain a little more?
aRealMan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 My recently divorced friend is a chick magnet women throw themselves at him all the time,a lot of these women are married women.One just got married a week ago and a few days later sent him naked pics of herself Others do the same and tell him how hot is he compared to their husbands...I know its not every women but stuff like this makes me evne more leery that if a find a women who accepts me sho wont be that attracted to me and will cheat on me with a good looking guy.. I feel Men get a bad rep for letting their hormones and lust lead them but know i see it just as much if not more with women and how they act around good looking dudes Even the married women in our social circle "playfully" flirt with him it makes me think good looking men can get most women to stray Welcome to real life. Looks or social status can get you most women. But, when you have both, you can choose from whatever comedumpster you want. Women are guided by their hormones to a far greater degree than men are. You spelled "whoremones" incorrectly. that is complete bs, simply observing men how ridiculous they act (running into lamp posts or being almost mown over by a car when seeing an attractive woman, forking money over to women just to see a bit of their skin) is proof enough that men's already-small-brain-to-begin-with goes straight down to their waistline. actually, it seems like women are guided by logic to a far greater degree than men are. and as usual, DY tells it like it is. Everything we see and use is because of man's "small brains". What has your useless gender brought to the world? Yeah, I thought so.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 What has your useless gender brought to the world? Yeah, I thought so. Every man here? 1
USMCHokie Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Not too clear on what your saying Hokie..can you explain a little more? I'll retract that last statement.
aRealMan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Every man here? No...I'm pretty sure men put the children in you. I don't recall women bring their own children to the world. Looks like you're the one with the "small brain". Try again, lol.
SteveC80 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Actually, the documentary, The Science of Sex Appeal, seemed to suggest that women are the ones more prone to cheating due to hormones, or moreso the change in hormones in the menstrual cycle. During ovulation, women were found to be more attracted to certain features which often differed (more masculine) from the features of their partners. . Ive seen this firsthand years ago when certain times of the month my friends wife would tell me how hot iam becauae im the leader of the group and more masculine and alpha then her laid back passive husband Know this may not be the case for every women but seems a little more factual then the gross generalazations about men by the peanut gallery in this thread:rolleyes:
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Ive seen this firsthand years ago when certain times of the month my friends wife would tell me how hot iam becauae im the leader of the group and more masculine and alpha then her laid back passive husband. Steve, how did you handle that situation?
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 No...I'm pretty sure men put the children in you. I don't recall women bring their own children to the world. Looks like you're the one with the "small brain". Try again, lol. I'm pretty sure that a man needs an egg to make the child and that an egg needs a sperm. I'm pretty sure it's a joint effort where a child comes out with the biological DNA of both parents. And I'm pretty sure that if it wasn't for the woman taking care of and growing the egg in her belly, that there would be no babies at all. I'm pretty sure that it's not me and my small brain that needs to go back to Biology 101.
aRealMan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I'm pretty sure that a man needs an egg to make the child and that an egg needs a sperm. I'm pretty sure it's a joint effort where a child comes out with the biological DNA of both parents. And I'm pretty sure that if it wasn't for the woman taking care of and growing the egg in her belly, that there would be no babies at all. I'm pretty sure that it's not me and my small brain that needs to go back to Biology 101. So, since you admit now that it is a joint effort.... you should not have answered "every guy here" to the question "what has your useless gender brought to society?"... because, see: my laptop, bed, car, phone, favorite gym, weights, games, roads traveled, tv, desk.... man was all responsible for that. yep, men and their "small brains" are responsible for life's necessities. funny, how all unnecessary you all are.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 So, since you admit now that it is a joint effort.... you should not have answered "every guy here" to the question "what has your useless gender brought to society?"... because, see: my laptop, bed, car, phone, favorite gym, weights, games, roads traveled, tv, desk.... man was all responsible for that. yep, men and their "small brains" are responsible for life's necessities. funny, how all unnecessary you all are. But it's true. Without women, no man would be here! And yes, it's a joint effort, but to not acknowledge the fact that women support the actual physical hardship of actually birthing a human being inside their bodies, something men simply don't do, would be foolish. You don't ilke the fact that someone undermined men with the "small brain" comment. I am not a fan of of saying men think with their "small brains" either. I think it's a condesending and degrading comment to make toward men. I think men are better then that. But why are you so bent on diminishing women even as you clearly don't like men being diminished?
SteveC80 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Steve, how did you handle that situation? Awkardly laughed it off and would leave the room if it was just us,but it made me realize this time of the month thing was real because therye would be times shed say im too dominant and arrogant and other times it would turn her on Do u not feel attracted to different types of men depending on what part of the cycle youre on? 1
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