pathetic1999 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 So got back from a awesome vacation and my birthday was while I was gone...he didn't text me so I was of course sad while I was gone...It's been 10 weeks since the BU and NC. I watched my phone all night, I know how important birthdays are to him, I get back to work and one of my friends here at work said her employee (who just happens to be my ex's brother) so she said her employee said that my ex said to remind my friend it was my birthday so she didn't forget to tell me happy birthday... So my friend at work said see he didn't forget he just went around the "silence" rules. Why do I feel almost worse??? Ugh what is wrong with me. I wanted him to contact me, yes it feels good he is thinking of me enough to send a message through but ugh.
Chi townD Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Girl, he broke up with you after dating for 2.5 years because he wasn't ready for a real commitment or something like that if I recall. Why would you want to hear from him? If he wanted you out of his life, then you give it to him. He shouldn't be hearing that your hurt because he didn't contact you. You're just giving him an ego boost," Aww...poor girl can't get over me. Well, who could blame her!" Time to be a strong and independant woman. I'm glad that you had a awesome time on vacation and Happy Birthday by the way!!!
Samilia Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 So got back from a awesome vacation and my birthday was while I was gone...he didn't text me so I was of course sad while I was gone...It's been 10 weeks since the BU and NC. I watched my phone all night, I know how important birthdays are to him, I get back to work and one of my friends here at work said her employee (who just happens to be my ex's brother) so she said her employee said that my ex said to remind my friend it was my birthday so she didn't forget to tell me happy birthday... So my friend at work said see he didn't forget he just went around the "silence" rules. Why do I feel almost worse??? Ugh what is wrong with me. I wanted him to contact me, yes it feels good he is thinking of me enough to send a message through but ugh. Ah I know you were hoping.. I know you're disappointed.. but don't be sad.. and remember you had a great trip, don't waste your vacation and your good tan on the break up!
Author pathetic1999 Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 Girl, he broke up with you after dating for 2.5 years because he wasn't ready for a real commitment or something like that if I recall. Why would you want to hear from him? If he wanted you out of his life, then you give it to him. He shouldn't be hearing that your hurt because he didn't contact you. You're just giving him an ego boost," Aww...poor girl can't get over me. Well, who could blame her!" Time to be a strong and independant woman. I'm glad that you had a awesome time on vacation and Happy Birthday by the way!!! Oh don't worry he doesn't hear anything about me being sad! All he hears are the good happy stories! Yes you have my story correct...I have totally stayed out of his life just ask he asked, that's why this threw me for a loop.
Author pathetic1999 Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 My mom said she's upset that he would think my friends would "forget" my bday and have to be reminded!
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