oneself Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 (edited) Hi everyone, I'm new to here and new to his country. Today I'v be threaten by my husband's ex-wife, she said she will kill me. I am scared now. I have to say it was my fault and I‘v apologised to every one involved. Because I forget to pick up my 12 years old step son, as normally I pick up him at 3:30, but today his school finished at 3:00, my husband reminded me about the time change few weeks ago, but all of us forgot it today. The school couldn't get hold with my husband when there was only my stepson left, then they phoned his mum. she left work early to pick up him to hers, actually she could phone me to remind me, I'm only 5 minutes away from school and today is our custody day. I got this new at 3:15 and been in school at 3:25, comforted my step son and he has no problem. But school staff said they already got agreement with his mum, and the child have to wait for her. She said to my husband and school teacher by phone threaten to kill me and lot of nasty things. the staff in school had to let me leave before she arrive. My husband and my stepson both said she is a crazy and violent woman, so I worried she was not only say that. Could anybody give me some suggestions? should I report to Police and where to find them, I don't think I can call 999. Edited July 9, 2012 by oneself
CarrieT Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 File a police report and a restraining order. Start the documentation now.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 kill her before she kills you. but seriously, just get that bitch locked up and press charges 1
janetadeline Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 You have to stop her doing so. If you let her get away from doing so, it will bring more such trouble back to you.
BetheButterfly Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Hi everyone, I'm new to here and new to his country. Today I'v be threaten by my husband's ex-wife, she said she will kill me. I am scared now. I have to say it was my fault and I‘v apologised to every one involved. Because I forget to pick up my 12 years old step son, as normally I pick up him at 3:30, but today his school finished at 3:00, my husband reminded me about the time change few weeks ago, but all of us forgot it today. The school couldn't get hold with my husband when there was only my stepson left, then they phoned his mum. she left work early to pick up him to hers, actually she could phone me to remind me, I'm only 5 minutes away from school and today is our custody day. I got this new at 3:15 and been in school at 3:25, comforted my step son and he has no problem. But school staff said they already got agreement with his mum, and the child have to wait for her. She said to my husband and school teacher by phone threaten to kill me and lot of nasty things. the staff in school had to let me leave before she arrive. My husband and my stepson both said she is a crazy and violent woman, so I worried she was not only say that. Could anybody give me some suggestions? should I report to Police and where to find them, I don't think I can call 999. May I ask please what country you are in now? If in the USA, you definitely should file a report, and ask the school teacher to write a letter of witness for you. Threatening to kill another person is serious and not acceptable. Filing a police report is a good thing to do, as well as making sure to be careful. I have never been in your situation, and don't know if there is just a mad woman you are dealing with or someone who seriously would do such a thing, but I would advise you not to be alone with her or let her in the house if she comes calling.
Author oneself Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 May I ask please what country you are in now? If in the USA, you definitely should file a report, and ask the school teacher to write a letter of witness for you. Threatening to kill another person is serious and not acceptable. Filing a police report is a good thing to do, as well as making sure to be careful. I have never been in your situation, and don't know if there is just a mad woman you are dealing with or someone who seriously would do such a thing, but I would advise you not to be alone with her or let her in the house if she comes calling. Thanks for the reply, I am in the UK, been in this county less than a year. don't know much about everything. Will check with the local police tomorrow. I hope she just say so ,but who knows.
irin Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 do you have proof of her threat, it could be just a figure of speech, i sometimes use it with my friends it harmless.
Radu Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I would document it and make sure everyone knows of it. May I ask what country you are from ? UK police has a reputation for corruption that is quite well known in Eastern Europe [i know of ppl who got killed by their employers in the UK and police did not investigate], so be carefull. I would try and and find a racial minority police officer and talk to him/her.
BetheButterfly Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Thanks for the reply, I am in the UK, been in this county less than a year. don't know much about everything. Will check with the local police tomorrow. I hope she just say so ,but who knows. Oh. I don't know about the UK. However, I don't think it would hurt to file a report in the UK. Now, it is possible that she was just using a figure of expression, but sadly that figure of expression, when used by the ex-wife who doesn't seem all that pleased with you, doesn't sound like a joke to me. Now it's possible she would never act on it, but I do encourage you to be careful. Is she an alcoholic? If so, I would encourage you to be doubly careful. Irin, yeah I use that figure of speech with my friends too but we know it's a joke and we would never ever purposely hurt each other. I don't think the OP senses it as a joke, and sad to say, there are people who threaten death to others and aren't joking. It does not sound like the ex-wife and the new wife (the OP) are good friends.
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