ThatDudeXO Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I went on a double date with this girl I liked and have kissed on previous occasions. We've been friends but attracted to each other but never acted on it until recently. On the date she showed the classic signs of interest and flirting, I could tell she liked me. We had a great time and then we just decided to go out with our other friends and get drunk. From then on we couldn't be separated for hours, always kissing and what not. We got home to her friends house and we were sat in the living room relaxing until the kissing and touching got heavier and before you know it we were having sex on the couch. (Classy right? lol) It went for a while, it was uncomfortable for me but great but after she orgasmed a few times she said that "we shouldn't be doing this" and insisted I stopped...so being the nice guy and that I actually like this girl I slowly stopped and we cuddled and talked for a while. Her reasonings were "This isn't the way it should be" "Not romantic at all" and "We shouldn't being doing this". I was a little frustrated but I was being cool about it and asked if she liked me, if she enjoyed it and if she would do it again with me....she said yes to all three. When I confessed that I do have feelings for her she just became a little awkward about it and brought up a bunch of bad excuses about taking things further...but insists she does like me and wants to see me again. I told her I liked her but I'm not the clingy type so I won't keep chasing her and also said that if she wanted more she could get in touch. We only see each other on the odd occasion when our friends get together for celebrations. She's awkward when it comes to guys liking her and she's never had a boyfriend so she really acts weird in intimate moments. She and her friends told me this. We ended the night by cudding, kissing and talking until she went to bed. I texted her the next day with a jokey reference to the double date before and she replied with a funny message in reference to the sex the night before. I knew she was at work so I left it at that. I'm kind of confused because I don't know what to do now...she lives an hour away and I don't know if I should let myself fall for her. The sex stopping prematurely really confused me and put me in a bad mood until she joked about it and said she enjoyed it. What do you guys this of a girl who acts this way? Should I just leave it or keep at it? She seems so difficult and awkward. (I'm sorry for the essay, I didn't want to bother my friends too much!)
louise_23 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 leave the ball in her court. she doesnt sound that into you from what you've said.
Emilia Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 She's awkward when it comes to guys liking her and she's never had a boyfriend so she really acts weird in intimate moments. She and her friends told me this. This is all you need to know. Who knows what her issue is? Clearly there is something. Don't try to be the knight in shining armour regardless how hot she is. Find someone with a healthy attitude to dating/relationships
Author ThatDudeXO Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 Fair enough. Thanks for the responses. It was what I thought but didn't want to be true. On to the next one I guess!
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