Shaun-Dro Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Just take a look my fellow men at this article that I cut and paste. As you guys can see, our female counterparts still wants her cake and to eat it too. This attitude, apparently, won't change. Ladies, let me know when you're ready to discuss what you need to do to impress your men so he'll want to continue seeing you, or I'll start looking through catalogs for that old maid rocking chair. Best first-date moves for men
Leopard Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 And when a woman actually avoids this frame of mind, and lowers her standards so she can actually date a guy, she is blasphemed for "settling". You can never win. 1
SteveC80 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Women are taught the begining and courtship is all about her needs and wants and about the man proving himself to her while she sits back and judges while she makes sure the man makes the dates that she can judge: pays or not that she can judge, and calls here not too soon or too long for her taste after the number is given and the first few dates and she can judge that 1
Woggle Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 To be fair there is a link to a similiar article from a man's point of view. Women who have the entitled princess mentality early on tend to show it so cut it loose once they do.
sally4sara Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Its like there is this one person running around in Shaundro's head named Woman. Woman is into herself and single. There will always be single people and there will always be people who are involved in a relationship. You can call them Man or Woman. You can accuse them of being self absorbed or any other quality. It matters not at all. I don't think you get this. Shaundro you so funny; the way you can make thread after thread and still say nothing much at all. 3
ThaWholigan Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I still don't know what planet you guys live on I meet women like this, but no more than 50% of the time at most. And my opinion is this: if what you want is women to try and impress you instead of you jumping through hoops, then be the prize. Nothing is stopping you except that you seem to think it will backfire and that women won't bite. Make yourself the prize to be won if that's the case. I guess I find this easier to do these days because I don't meet the f*cked up women you guys describe all the time 3
Anela Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 What on earth is the point of having cake, if you aren't going to EAT it??? I hate that phrase. Am I supposed to be all about you? I thought we were supposed to not be needy and clingy (stage five clinger!!), and to be able to pay our own way on dates, pay our own bills, have our own fancy cars... and then suddenly turn into the most sweet, submissive, lady-like woman you've ever met, so that you can be a real man, have your beautiful, submissive woman (cake), and eat it, too (control our every move, so that you feel like a real man). Whatever. 2
Anela Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Also, I can't believe how many of you see yourself as only attracting a woman, if that woman lowers her standards. you don't think very much of yourselves, do you? 3
rana-rana Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Just take a look my fellow men at this article that I cut and paste. As you guys can see, our female counterparts still wants her cake and to eat it too. This attitude, apparently, won't change. Ladies, let me know when you're ready to discuss what you need to do to impress your men so he'll want to continue seeing you, or I'll start looking through catalogs for that old maid rocking chair. Best first-date moves for men huh? i'm like nowhere near that so whatever. anyways i'm not that hard to impress. i'm always open to meeting new guys all the time. i date around but i dont be ****ing these guys. i'm not a hoe like that. but guys still need to show their character though. i'm not a easy lay so they need to get that or be outta here. 1
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 What on earth is the point of having cake, if you aren't going to EAT it??? I hate that phrase. Am I supposed to be all about you? I thought we were supposed to not be needy and clingy (stage five clinger!!), and to be able to pay our own way on dates, pay our own bills, have our own fancy cars... and then suddenly turn into the most sweet, submissive, lady-like woman you've ever met, so that you can be a real man, have your beautiful, submissive woman (cake), and eat it, too (control our every move, so that you feel like a real man). Whatever. LOL, these threads suck Just ignore the lovable losers. I promise you all men are not like that in real life 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 There are times in our lives when we are mostly all about ourselves. During those times, it's probably a good idea to remain single. It's as it should be. OP - do you spend a great deal of time concerning yourself with other people and what you can do to improve their lot in life or just make them feel good? I doubt it. And you're single, too. 1
somedude81 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 And when a woman actually avoids this frame of mind, and lowers her standards so she can actually date a guy, she is blasphemed for "settling". You can never win. Who is doing that to them? I can't imagine a man blasting a woman for settling.
Nicomis Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I still don't know what planet you guys live on I meet women like this, but no more than 50% of the time at most. And my opinion is this: if what you want is women to try and impress you instead of you jumping through hoops, then be the prize. Nothing is stopping you except that you seem to think it will backfire and that women won't bite. Make yourself the prize to be won if that's the case. I guess I find this easier to do these days because I don't meet the f*cked up women you guys describe all the time If any man wen't on more than one date, with any of the women in that article, I would seriously have to question their intelligence. I particularly liked the one that in so many words stated that she wasn't a gold digging whore before she moved to NYC. As if geography made her the parasitic skank she is. You run across a few women like that, and most western women have a little of that in them, but those were extreme examples.
ThaWholigan Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Who is doing that to them? I can't imagine a man blasting a woman for settling. If someone can handle all that comes with settling, then good for them. I'm just saying that lots of people who settle tend to regret their decision, and it builds resentment and hurts the other party. If Leopard can handle settling, then that's her choice and hopefully she is fully happy with it, although I feel a tinge of sympathy for the BF who is none-the-wiser of how unattractive he is to her physically. I would not like to be in his position, oblivious or not. If he's happy though, it's whatever I suppose Also, I can't believe how many of you see yourself as only attracting a woman, if that woman lowers her standards. you don't think very much of yourselves, do you? Checkmate. If any man wen't on more than one date, with any of the women in that article, I would seriously have to question their intelligence. I particularly liked the one that in so many words stated that she wasn't a gold digging whore before she moved to NYC. As if geography made her the parasitic skank she is. You run across a few women like that, and most western women have a little of that in them, but those were extreme examples. I live in London, which is a haven for classism. So I do meet girls that are like the ones in the article. The difference is, my fortunately large social circle also includes lots of other different women, and people. So I don't have to be subjected to most of the stuff that I hear guys talk about on LS all the time. As a result, I don't really have any complaints about women in general. There are bad behaved women, yes. I see it, and very often I DO call it. But I would rather not paint the majority with the same brush. 1
SteveC80 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 that's her choice, although I feel a tinge of sympathy for the BF who is none-the-wiser of how unattractive he is to her physically. I would not like to be in his position, oblivious or not. If he's happy though, it's whatever I suppose . Hate to break it to you but thats the majorty of many single and unattractive peoples plights but their partners wold never tell them When i was young and selfish and slept with tons of married women i cant tell you how many women told me how unattractive they found their spouse but would never tell them 1
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I live in London, which is a haven for classism. So I do meet girls that are like the ones in the article. The difference is, my fortunately large social circle also includes lots of other different women, and people. So I don't have to be subjected to most of the stuff that I hear guys talk about on LS all the time. As a result, I don't really have any complaints about women in general. There are bad behaved women, yes. I see it, and very often I DO call it. But I would rather not paint the majority with the same brush. I live in a Suburb near Chicago and I almost never see the stuff that people complain about either I feel like I'm sometimes living in a different planet 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Hate to break it to you but thats the majorty of many single and unattractive peoples plights but their partners wold never tell them When i was young and selfish and slept with tons of married women i cant tell you how many women told me how unattractive they found their spouse but would never tell them I don't doubt that at all. It's just not going to happen to me I would never date/settle with a woman who didn't fine me attractive.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 edit to my last post. I meant to also say that I can detect superficial gold digger types when I see them from a mile away and I avoid those like I avoid the plague I have no respect whatsoever for a woman who expects everything to be handed to her in life
SteveC80 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I would never date/settle with a woman who didn't fine me attractive. They would never tell you;) 1
Leopard Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Women are taught the begining and courtship is all about her needs and wants and about the man proving himself to her while she sits back and judges while she makes sure the man makes the dates that she can judge: pays or not that she can judge, and calls here not too soon or too long for her taste after the number is given and the first few dates and she can judge that HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA I'm sorry, I had to get out of the system. Umm... those women are... oh my.. I can't find a nice word... A woman's job is to make the man feel like he's in charge. Make him feel like that man. After reading your post I can see why so many men are so unhappy on this forum. Also, I can't believe how many of you see yourself as only attracting a woman, if that woman lowers her standards. you don't think very much of yourselves, do you? I think that they just use this as an excuse so they don't have to better themselves and put in the extra effort. If a woman wants a man to pay for a date, her standards are "too high". A man can't just treat her to dinner. No way. She has to lower her standards. Like I said. You can never win. If a man isn't good enough, its the woman's fault for having standards too high. If she lowers her standards then she is "settling" and men continue to b*tch and moan because they don't want to be settled for. How about shut up and make something of yourself that a woman actually wants so that she doesn't have to settle for you. And yes, that includes paying for a date now and then and holding the door every now and then. On the bright side, men who are too dumb to do this make it easier for the smarter guys to impress the ladies. I suppose that's fair. Who is doing that to them? I can't imagine a man blasting a woman for settling. I made another thread about faking orgasms, and I was continuously called a liar and a horrible person because I fake orgasms with my boyfriend. I know it makes him feel good about himself, but no one cares about that, all they care about is "radical honesty" and not how my boyfriend feels. This is why there are so many relationship problems. Women don't know how to be women. I don't mean this about sex or orgasms, but in general, they are just too "radically honest" and they base an entire relationship on that, when they don't realize it makes things worse. If I had to be radically honest, then my boyfriend would be long gone by now. I don't like how he fidgets all the time, I hate his teeth, it bothers me that he is ALWAYS late to occasions and he is a horrible driver. But I keep those things to myself because I love him, and saying these things will only make fights and cause problems. Most women don't understand that, and I suppose that's why men complain that so many women nag and complain and b*tch about everything. 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 edit to my last post. I meant to also say that I can detect superficial gold digger types when I see them from a mile away and I avoid those like I avoid the plague I have no respect whatsoever for a woman who expects everything to be handed to her in life I'm broke so I don't need to avoid them - they avoid me!
Leopard Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I would find out I don't mean this as a shot at you, but no you wouldn't. Husbands in 20-year marriages still have no idea lol Just because a man is settled for doesn't mean he isn't loved or cared for.
sally4sara Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 A woman's job is to make the man feel like he's in charge. Make him feel like that man. A person's job is to be the best person they can be for themselves and the people in their life. I much prefer how my husband already knew he was a man and didn't need someone to dumb down for him to feel that way. 2
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