Am i being mugged off?

[Sophia12345]

So me and my ex broke up around 4 months ago after 4 years together.

I allways am the firsy to admit I could have been a MUCH better girlfreind and for the past year changed my ways but by this time it was too late and he was making his transition into feeling its easier to be without me.

 

Anyway we have been on light contact ever since, meeting up around once a month speaking about every two weeks. It was my birthday this past week and although i was in the states for a week over it and i wasnt even expecting a text let alone anything more from my ex, i got a message from him asking to take me out for a meal for my birthday when i got back home :S. I was so shocked! Anyway I agreed, and we have spoke everyday since. I got home on friday morning and that evening he came and we spent the afternoon together. Then the next day I was at a festival, got back about 1am and he came round to my house and invited me back to his :S, we stayed awake till the very early hours and throughout the whole time he kept telling me he missed me, loves me allways wants me in his life. Whilst we where hugging he said he feels like he is home again. On the contrast he also said how its easier for him to be single, not have to worry about having me as his girlfriend and told me not to assume anything.

 

Im just so confused, i dont have a clue whats going on one week he thinks i hate him ( i dont even know where he would have got that from) next wants to see me.

 

Im not really sure where i stand, but i know that if i ask the answer will DEFFINATELY be lets just leave us cause he doesnt want to have to deal with a girlfriend.

 

Basically, Im not sure wether i should wait for him to come round (knowing that this may never come round) or just stop this whole thing now?

 

 

any input would be amazing!

[flitzanu]

you should move on. he broke up with you, and you need to quit talking to him and encouraging this behavior. if he wants to be with you, he'll tell you.