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I met this guy seven years ago. It was while I was on vacation with friends and he was on vacation as well. We met at a bar/club at the beach. He ended up coming up to me, bought me a drink and we exchanged numbers. We ended up adding each other on facebook and kept in touch now and then as life moved on. We never dated. But, he did come down to see me once and then years passed and I went to see him once. Both times I saw him it was awkward. I think he is a nice guy, but...I do not know how I feel about him otherwise. I am pretty sure he still likes me would like to date now. He just broke up with his ex last week. The reason I am writing all of this is because he asked me if I would like to hang out sometime. While normally I could just tell myself that's it's just dinner or just a movie...or whatever....the fact is he lives 2 hours away...whether I go up there or he comes down here...it is pretty much a weekend thing where someone will have to stay the night. And besides that - I think that is a long time to be with someone that you aren't sure about...in other words...lets say it gets awkward...then what? I can't just leave or kick him out. The reason I say this - is because I felt like that before. I am afraid of it feeling like that again. He gave me his phone number and asked if we could hang this weekend. I don't know what to do. I would hate to invite him or go down there and then for it to be bad/awkward again.

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He just got out of something. I'd be more worried about him trying to rebound hard.

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Ever heard of a hotel? You know. The place that's "your home away from home" when you don't have someplace to stay or don't want to stay somewhere else?

 

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TMichaels

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Don't lead him on if you are not interested.

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