Jimbo143 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Well I just took a woman out that I was talking to for a while.. Its just hard for us to meet up b/c she lives in San Diego and I live about an hour and a half away. Well to make a long story short I went out to SD to visit some family and decided to hang with her tonight.. Well I took her to Pacific Beach and basically walked the boardwalk and watched the sunset. Lots of playful touching and laughing.. I was in control of myself man and it was nice. Talked and walked, went to Starbucks. Just had some really good convo. Well when I went to drop her off about 15 min ago she thanked me for a great night and gave me a big hug.. I fvucken froze and didnt give her a kiss goodnight :/. I got in my car and began to drive away... I fvucken stopped in the middle of the street (lincoln ave) and flipped a b!tch and drove back to her place.. I texted her to come outside and she did.. I grabbed her and said I had great night and kissed her on the lips. She gave me props for doing it I think she liked it... She is a shy girl and said she never kisses on the first date (bs prob who knows). Thats all beside the point... I fvucken drove back to kiss her cuz I thought of all those moments when I didn't step up and go for what I wanted and take a risk. I had to prove to myself that I had the courage to do it and the thought of driving home without closing with something would be a total failure.. I feel good right now. I just did the ballsiest **** ive done in a while. No more waiting around and letting opportunities pass. I dont even care if she calls me again or text me.. I just had to know that I possesed the guts to do what I did. Im going after what I want. So girls what do you think about this?? If a guy did this to you? 1
USMCHokie Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I have actually done the re-return for the kiss about a handful of times...good move on your part. 1
january2011 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Swoonworthy. But only if I liked him. If I didn't, then perhaps I would have moved my face out of the way...I'm not a fan of being manhandled unless I like the man handling me. Not to take away from your moment though. Well done on going for it and her agreement that it was the right move to make.
Emilia Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 So girls what do you think about this?? If a guy did this to you? Hot hot hot!
runner Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 you did it cos you intuited that she would have appreciated it. good on you man. if it were me and the date was crap, i would have kept driving. PB is a pretty fun spot btw. good call.
Author Jimbo143 Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 you did it cos you intuited that she would have appreciated it. good on you man. if it were me and the date was crap, i would have kept driving. PB is a pretty fun spot btw. good call. Ya PB was the perfect spot for a casual date.. Plenty of opportunity to just chill and talk. The view of the sunset at the beach was amazing.
Author Jimbo143 Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 Ya PB was the perfect spot for a casual date.. Plenty of opportunity to just chill and talk. The view of the sunset at the beach was amazing. Well just an update if anyone cares... Well my bold move didn't payoff. She basically told me she felt no spark while hanging out on our date. Its hard to understand.. I mean we were really hitting it off. In the end I learned a lot. At least by making the act and taking the risk I got my answer. She just ain't about it. You win some and you lose some... I lost this one..
SJC2008 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Touhing+laughing+great convo=No spark?? Sorry to hear that bro but props to you for making the move!
Author Jimbo143 Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 Touhing+laughing+great convo=No spark?? Sorry to hear that bro but props to you for making the move! I kinda feel she may be afraid to fall. She starts law school and University of San diego next month and I don't start law school until January. I told her I might not go to SD for law school cuz im keeping my options open to get the most money. The future is def uncertain. It was a rather weird text and I did not even try to ask her why. I just told her I had a great night also and that sometimes people just dont click, nobodys fault. Good luck with everything . I mean with all the women I have dated while in college and up until now I havent been on a more complete and romantic date. There were def sparks lol. I wont delve into the reasons because Women are just unexplainable sometimes.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I don't start law school until January You don't watch a lot of news, do you?
Author Jimbo143 Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 You don't watch a lot of news, do you? ya man I know the legal market is down, but Im guaranteed a 70% scholly to Cal Western in SD. Plus my uncle is an attorney, so I have a job waiting. I just have to pass the bar.
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