ennairda Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I had this guy friend, we are the same age, we had known and hung out with one another for 4 years. We had already discussed and talked about us having sex, we knew it was something that wasn't going to happen. Then I got a new bf, moved in with him, my guy friend met my bf, they got a long great. My guy friend invites us to a concert, we were previously engaged at another event and I tell him so saying we can't make it. And then he stops talking to me, after a month I ask him whats going on? he responds saying that he needs to get his life in order and make priorities. saying that I never made him one of mine even though I would drop everything to drive 45 minutes to see him for 10 minutes if he asked me to. I live in toronto my mother lives north of me, I would go home at least once a month to see her. I had never lived outside of my parents home before I moved in with my bf. My guy friend says that he was sick and tired of seeing me move in and out of a bunch of different guys places. which I never did, that he didnt like how I was going back and forth between my home town and toronto saying it like I was moving constantly, which I wasn't. and saying that I never made him my priority and that I didn't have time for him in my life. Some of my friends are saying that he was in love with me, but I hear now thats he is saying a bunch of nasty things about me, calling me a crazy bitch when all I have done is asked him what I have done wrong, and I just don't know what to do? do I try to talk to him, I want to know what went wrong, but he refuses to give me the chance, I keep dreaming about him, its driving me crazy I don't know what to do.
revenant Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 It almost sounds as if you 2 were talking to different people. You could be downplaying your side but since your here for advice not to clear your name thats doubtful. It sounds as if he's taken not having you all to himself rather hard but that's no excuse for what he's doing. If he's really spreading lies about you make sure the people you care about know the true story. As for him; is he worth it? If you are happy with your boyfriend and situation, he should be happy for you. He might not be your main priority anymore but it sounds like you were still really making an effort and he's blown it out of proportion. Somethings gone strange somewhere but try not to let it upset you, if you have mutual friends see if they know anything but maybe it's time to move on?
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