Oncehadluv Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 my issue is popularity contests and competing im not in highschool anymore and these traits in potential friends is a huge red flag for me im the laid back type and content with where i am today, however hanging around individuals like this makes me uneasy, i start thinking to myself is this how dudes are always seeking popularity and status... so then i get to thinking i should be doing the same. am i a bad friend for thinking like this? theres no way id bring up an issue like this for discussion to him because its girly
Shohane Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I would only cut someone off when they were jealous of me or tried to sabotage my goals. On the other hand, Fair competitions are impetus for personal growth. You can bring it up by inviting him to be your rival, fair-and-square rival.
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 I would only cut someone off when they were jealous of me or tried to sabotage my goals. On the other hand, Fair competitions are impetus for personal growth. You can bring it up by inviting him to be your rival, fair-and-square rival. good idea i didnt even consider it im an over achiever so once n a while ill give him a victory lol im competitive by nature so by having a " calm" friend is good for me
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