flyty6000 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Okay first off this is directed to guys and I really don't care what you females or other people think. I am a player and don't care. Don't talk to me about getting caught I know the risk involved and I don't care. I have a g/f but I am on an online dating site with a private profile looking to meet some girls to see on the side. My intentions aren't too hurt these girls or mislead them. Im just looking to My question is for guys who do the same thing do you tell the girl during your online conversation that you have a g/f or do you wait to tell them on the phone or in person about having a g/f. Like I said I'm trying to be upfront and honest with them that I'm not looking for anything serious. But at what stage of the new relationship with the side girl do you let them know about your girlfriend. Thanks in advance.
Algermas Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Okay first off this is directed to guys and I really don't care what you females or other people think. I am a player and don't care. Don't talk to me about getting caught I know the risk involved and I don't care. I have a g/f but I am on an online dating site with a private profile looking to meet some girls to see on the side. My intentions aren't too hurt these girls or mislead them. Im just looking to My question is for guys who do the same thing do you tell the girl during your online conversation that you have a g/f or do you wait to tell them on the phone or in person about having a g/f. Like I said I'm trying to be upfront and honest with them that I'm not looking for anything serious. But at what stage of the new relationship with the side girl do you let them know about your girlfriend. Thanks in advance. First off how attractive are you? I ask this because it's the deciding factor in whether or not you'll be able to get away with the whole "Yeah I have a girl at home, im just here to bang". If you're an underwear model you won't have any problems, otherwise you might want to lie by omission.
Author flyty6000 Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 I am attractive enough to pull it off. I get girls rather easily. I get a pretty high response rate to my messages. But I rather focus on girls out of my local area which is why I'm going online. Much easier and less stressful.
SmileFace Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Tell them in the beginning. You may want to even include it in your profile. Put your on your profile that your in an open relationship. Then discuss the details in private. It is only far to be honest.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 This thread is absolutely horrible Yikes, stop giving him advice people, this guy needs to see a shrink. Having a GF and actively looking to cheat on her is horrible
SmileFace Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Opps... just reread the op. Nevermind, since I am a female and all. However I can't edit my reply.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Opps... just reread the op. Nevermind, since I am a female and all. However I can't edit my reply. I love how he says "this is directed at guys" as if all guys are perfectly fine with the idea of having a GF and screwing women on the side Cheating is horrible. If you want to be a player and screw 500 women, go ahead and do that but be single. Jesus what's wrong with people?
Author flyty6000 Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 Please you act like it's so bad. Do you know the % of men that cheat and women too? If you've been in 5 relationship 3 of those 5 you've been cheated on and that's being honest. Let's not be so judgemental and critical here people.
confused_woman1 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 This thread is ridiculous. Talk about being open and honest, are you planning on telling your girlfriend about your side flings? This is so not fair to her. Stop thinking about only yourself.
kaylan Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Are you seriously on this forum of all places looking for advice on how to cheat? Trust me when I say there are better forums out there for you to get your answers. I hope your girl is getting railed 7 ways from sunday every saturday night by a new guy. Youd never know since youre so sure of how most people supposedly cheats. Your logic is garbage too...so just because some people are selfish dirtbags then the rest of us shouldnt care about people getting betrayed and emotionally hurt?
Pyro Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Okay first off this is directed to guys and I really don't care what you females or other people think. I am a player and don't care. Don't talk to me about getting caught I know the risk involved and I don't care. I have a g/f but I am on an online dating site with a private profile looking to meet some girls to see on the side. My intentions aren't too hurt these girls or mislead them. Im just looking to My question is for guys who do the same thing do you tell the girl during your online conversation that you have a g/f or do you wait to tell them on the phone or in person about having a g/f. Like I said I'm trying to be upfront and honest with them that I'm not looking for anything serious. But at what stage of the new relationship with the side girl do you let them know about your girlfriend. Thanks in advance. If you were a true player you wouldn't need to come online to get advice on this. A true player knows how to do it without asking. Best of luck to you on actually finding women that are OK with that.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Are you seriously on this forum of all places looking for advice on how to cheat? Trust me when I say there are better forums out there for you to get your answers. I hope your girl is getting railed 7 ways from sunday every saturday night by a new guy. Youd never know since youre so sure of how most people supposedly cheats. Your logic is garbage too...so just because some people are selfish dirtbags then the rest of us shouldnt care about people getting betrayed and emotionally hurt? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
SmileFace Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Eh, the kid asked for advice. Advice on how to CHEAT? Seriously, how far do you think he will get with this anyway? Why not entertain him.... who seriously asks for advice on how to cheat? If he is smart enough to ask - we just have to wonder how smart the chick is. You reap what you sow, but that is his problem ... not anyone elses. Plus I know tons of girls and guys who sleep with people in relationships as if it is no problem at all so why not be completley honest in a situation like this?
Cracker Jack Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Lol, "I am a player and don't care" was all I needed to read.
brahmabull117 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Lol, "I am a player and don't care" was all I needed to read. There's nothing wrong with being a player, as long as you're honest and upfront about it...and you don't get into a relationship while you continue your player escapades
Cracker Jack Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Never said there was. I just thought it was funny how he made it a point to state it...then ask for help.
Leigh 87 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 There is nothing wrong with wanting to screw around, but why on earth do you want a girlfriend?@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHy do you WANT to keep your current girlfriend?! You should be single if you want to act that way. Wait until you are ready to settle down with one women, before getting a girlfriend. PLEASE break up with her and do her a favour.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Okay first off this is directed to guys and I really don't care what you females or other people think. The most deeply concerning part of the original post is highlighted above. Just who/what are the targets referenced?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Please you act like it's so bad. Do you know the % of men that cheat and women too? If you've been in 5 relationship 3 of those 5 you've been cheated on and that's being honest. Let's not be so judgemental and critical here people. flyty, maybe you should pay attention in a math class somewhere so you can begin to actually understand the data you're spewing. Take, for example, the misleading belief that "half of all marriages end in divorce". Well yeah, certain people (and you're surely a candidate) just don't have what it takes to mate for life, so they marry once, think nothing of divorcing, and then marry again (typically to {other} damaged individuals with no interest in recovering) only to divorce again. Then they get married a 3rd time to similar candidates (who are invariably 'their type'), only to divorce once more before repeating the process over and over. The neighbor next door gets married once, as a well-adjusted person both inside and outside, and he/she stays married to another such individual for a lifetime. So while you and others of your ilk evolve to marry 4 and 5 times (to one another, typically), you do nothing but pad the 'divorce' statistics so that the media outlets which guide your (what we'll call) thinking can keep you justifying what are effectively your flaws. Raw divorce data from the above would hint at "80-85% of all marriages ending in divorce", but the data (as is the case with the popular "50%" figure) is meaningless. P.S. - people love to justify their flaws, and the media knows this.
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