MakingItRight Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I recently cheated. I found out my partner of 13 years was active on a hook up app. Instead of confronting him, I decided to "get even." I went to club and hooked up. My partner found the receipt from the club and confronted me. I confessed and explained, but he doesn't see it the same way I do. We are now living in separate homes, but see each other regularly. My problem is I have said, I'm sorry, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. He warns to live apart, but I am not sure that will work for me. Advice?
sweetheart5381 Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Well, you cheated. He had to end it. Do you really have to wonder if he misses you? He was playing russian roulette but you drew/fired the bullet on the relationship. He may miss you, but I can bet he doesnt want anything to do with you right now. 2 wrongs dont make a right... you guys need serious therapy if there is any chance of a reconcile. Seeing as you both seem to want to be with other people, why not make it official and end it totally? Set one another free. Or.... You can have an "open" relationship... oh wait... there is way too much dishonesty in this relationship for that. "Sorry" does not cut it in this case my dear. If it doesnt work for you, then leave. You basically did when you cheated. Case closed.
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